mistake#2
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She's abusive and you want to get away from her and be fair right? Soon she'll get abusive to the kid too, then you'll have to do something. [/quote]
He said browbeating, not abusive...do you need a dictionary or are you purposely trying to twist the words to give wrong ideas?
Browbeating - to intimidate with looks or words; bully.
To depress or bear down with haughty, stern looks, or with arrogant speech and dogmatic assertions; to abash or disconcert by impudent words or looks.
Let that be your lesson of the day, EZ.
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EZmark
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So "Browbeating" by that definition is in the dictionary. It is also another way to describe verbally abusive, which I suspect tired of nagging is on the receiving end of. Justice is in the dictionary too, and not found in family court as defined there.
Tired needs prep for a rough road ahead. I find making excuses over fine points of definitions and having the dictionary being read to me a form of nagging, and quite a turn off. Ooops, wrong thread. Good night
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tiredofnagging
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Nothing you have posted proves the mother unfit. [/quote]
However I feel most of what you posted did not make you appear as a good person or parent. So basically you are done with your wife now but you still want the sweet child you bought? Unreal...I hope she gets custody. Maybe a long hard look in the mirror is in order? Just my opinion of course. I found the entire thread offensive. Have you any idea how emotionally and financially devastating divorce is on both parties? How emotionally difficult it is on children? Dang! Now I want to brow beat you too! [/quote]
Lady ( and I assume you are...) your crude comments regarding my daughter are completely and grossly innappropriate.
You know nothing other than you got hosed somewhere along the way. Someone sure did a number on your head or maybe it was the other way around. Too bad, so sad.
Dang, there always seems to be a creature like you somewhere every day.....
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Edited by tiredofnagging (05/16/08 11:49 PM)
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juliacinaz
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Nothing you have posted proves the mother unfit. [/quote]
However I feel most of what you posted did not make you appear as a good person or parent. So basically you are done with your wife now but you still want the sweet child you bought? Unreal...I hope she gets custody. Maybe a long hard look in the mirror is in order? Just my opinion of course. I found the entire thread offensive. Have you any idea how emotionally and financially devastating divorce is on both parties? How emotionally difficult it is on children? Dang! Now I want to brow beat you too! [/quote]
Lady ( and I assume you are...) your crude comments regarding my daughter are completely and grossly innappropriate.
You know nothing other than you got hosed somewhere along the way. Someone sure did a number on your head or maybe it was the other way around. Too bad, so sad.
Dang, there always seems to be a creature like you somewhere every day..... [/quote]
I am innapropriate? HA! Read what you wrote man!
You are totally unaware of my situation and of who or what I am. Read what you posted. You stated more than once how you just want your daughter and you will LIE to get her by saying your wife is unfit. I am not a creature and neither is your STBX. I am trying to get you to look at yourself and realize what your intending to do has very serious consequences. Not just for your stbx but for your daughter. My daughter knows what her father said about me and knows it is a lie and has to face her lying father. Think about your child's opinion of you for trying to take a loving parent away for no good reason except your own selfishness. Is this what is best for the child? My wife nags me so I will lie and say she is unfit? That way you don't have to deal with her? Is this your mindset? I am here to tell you that is not going to work. You will alienate your stbx, cause mountains of legal fees and your child will lose respect for you in the process. Is that what you want?
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Jada
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Lady ( and I assume you are...) your crude comments regarding my daughter are completely and grossly innappropriate. [/quote]
Crude comments? Uh, she didn't make any crude comments about an innocent child.
She just told you what she thought of your crude actions.
Learn the difference.
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juliacinaz
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Lady ( and I assume you are...) your crude comments regarding my daughter are completely and grossly innappropriate. [/quote]
Crude comments? Uh, she didn't make any crude comments about an innocent child.
She just told you what she thought of your crude actions.
Learn the difference. [/quote]
Yeah...What he is planning is what is grossly innapropriate. Such a pity. Thanks Jada.
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tiredofnagging
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Crude comments? Uh, she didn't make any crude comments about an innocent child.
Uh actually she did when referring to a child that was bought. Heard that too many times from people who know nothing about adoption. Also, I guess too you don't understand about being non-judgemental to people who are looking for advice or simply venting.
What seems clear form your posts is that you seem to hate all men. For whatever reason. I could say that's because you were sh!tty wives and got what you deserved. But I won't stoop to your level, which ranks about as high as amphibious turtle sh!t.
Besides, how do you know if my wife is fit or unfit. Answer is you don't have a frigin idea. You just assume that it's all me. Must be that men sh!t. Perhaps you should consider an alternative lifestyle.
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juliacinaz
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[quote]Crude comments? Uh, she didn't make any crude comments about an innocent child.
Uh actually she did when referring to a child that was bought. Heard that too many times from people who know nothing about adoption. Also, I guess too you don't understand about being non-judgemental to people who are looking for advice or simply venting.
What seems clear form your posts is that you seem to hate all men. For whatever reason. I could say that's because you were shitty wives and got what you deserved. But I won't stoop to your level, which ranks about as high as amphibious turtle shit. [/quote]
Actually I just dislike people who act like you are acting. I know plenty about adoption..point is you where the one who said you deserved custody because you paid for the child. Name calling just shows your true colors. I am done...you will receive no more replies from me. Go ahead and bash away. Whatever makes you feel better about your poor choices.
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tiredofnagging
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I know plenty about adoption..point is you where the one who said you deserved custody because you paid for the child.
If you knew even the first thing about LEGAL adoptions, you would never infer that a child was bought. Secondly, if you actually read a previous post I happen to adore my daughter. The issue of MONEY seems to rear its ugly head in just about every divorce discussion.
DOES IT NOT????
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Jada
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YOu said:
Uh actually she did when referring to a child that was bought. Heard that too many times from people who know nothing about adoption.
My response:
I know quite a bit about adoption as I have two family members that are adopted. That leap must have hurt.
You said:
Also, I guess too you don't understand about being non-judgemental to people who are looking for advice or simply venting.
My response:
You are looking to take a child away from someone who you have said is a good person. Simply because you want to raise her by yourself.
You said:
What seems clear form your posts is that you seem to hate all men.
My response:
What seems clear is that you are confusing not agreeing with you and not supporting you blindly in your efforts to raise your child by yourself with hating men.
That leap really must have hurt.
You said:
For whatever reason. I could say that's because you were sh!tty wives and got what you deserved.
My response:
One could say the same to you. Your point?
You said:
But I won't stoop to your level, which ranks about as high as amphibious turtle sh!t.
My response:
Thanks for the laugh. Hello pot, meet kettle.
You said:
Besides, how do you know if my wife is fit or unfit.
My response:
Your posts. You yourself have said that your wife is a good person, here is a direct quote from you:
"TY for your reply. I don't believe she would do that; she is a good person. Fact is, I do not love her anymore and I believe the feeling is mutual. Guess we keep going out of habit or maybe comfort level. Maybe for our daughter."
You said:
Answer is you don't have a frigin idea. You just assume that it's all me.
My response:
Well, your posts do indicate that you think it's all about you. Nowhere have you stated that the mother is unfit. You have, in fact, stated that she is a good person.
One can only go by your posts.
You said:
Must be that men sh!t.
My response:
No, it must be that reading your posts sh*t.
You said:
Thanks for the suggestion, but I'll pass. I like men too much to consider an alternate lifestyle.
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