Beat-Down
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Reged: 08/20/07
Posts: 206
Loc: Texas
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It stinks because we have been geting along much better while he has been out of state. Is there anyone here from Georgia? Maybe you could hook em up with someone really special while he is there. Just joshing- I wouldn't wish him on my worst enemy
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Don't stop until it sounds expensive!
Edited by Beat-Down (05/14/08 12:59 PM)
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mistake#2
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Reged: 07/19/06
Posts: 2887
Loc: Florida
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Practice ignoring him on his level...instead create a business like persona that you would have if you were having to get stinky cheese from the local deli.
I have to talk to the OW all the time, as my ex married her and lets her handle everything from finances to visitation...I get to listen to my son call her mom. It takes time, but you can get to a point where you feel nothing for the act they did. If they are idiots to boot, then that can sometimes make it easier to deal with too.
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Baby #5 on the way
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mrpat
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Reged: 09/12/07
Posts: 2504
Loc: Michigan
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Wish I lived by you. I'd come over and beat his azz for you. Your ex is a dipsh!t.
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Playing by my rules................COSTLY.
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Beat-Down
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Reged: 08/20/07
Posts: 206
Loc: Texas
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Well I have already learned that he doesn’t catch on to the Azzz whooping thing to well. Slow learner. The panty waist called the cops on me last time. He got exactly what we deserved and then had the gawl to file charges on me. It is a good thing that I have learned my lesson. He isn’t worth it and neither is she.
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Don't stop until it sounds expensive!
Edited by Beat-Down (05/14/08 01:29 PM)
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Beat-Down
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Reged: 08/20/07
Posts: 206
Loc: Texas
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Ok I told her that it was fine if he rode with her to drop the kids off. I said it was no problem at all and it didnt bother me. I told her that I would be inside and to just send the kids to the door when they got there. I live in the country and the kids are plenty old enough to walk to the door by them selves. I had to my tongue. OUCH!! GRRRRRRR.
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HardKnox
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Reged: 06/13/07
Posts: 2309
Loc: Wisconsin
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Well, you COULD choose that moment to clean the ol' shotgun out on the porch while you're waiting. Usually just one good *ka-schlick* of a pump-action Winchester 1300 gets their attention. Not a good idea to play with firearms in front of the youngsters, however.
Or, you COULD pound the living crap out of him again. And end up in prison. Somebody's girlfriend. Ow....your butt.
Or you COULD just ignore the loser(s). Demonstrate to them youngsters your maturity and good sense in dealing with an extremely difficult situation.
I remember your original post BD.
I'm sure you'll do the right thing.
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Beat-Down
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Reged: 08/20/07
Posts: 206
Loc: Texas
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HK- You know I will do the right thing. My kids are the very most important thing to me. How they are raised and the things that they are exposed two are also very important. I would never let them see anything negative from me. It's all good and this to shall pass.
Thank you all for listening to me rant this morning. I am better now, I think! <smiles>
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picasso
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Reged: 09/16/07
Posts: 1834
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If your kids are going to be there, I highly suggest that you dont let them see daddy acting like a jerk.
IT isnt their fault, and remember, they can only have ONE dad....show them that you love them by swallowing your pride for a few minutes.
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tookway2much
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Reged: 03/31/08
Posts: 519
Loc: Going toward the light!
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Next time.......... I'll come down and hide in the bushes. You take the children inside. I'll jump out in front of the car. When she stops< I'll grab her out of the car, smack her face, and bite his big nose.......... yeah, yeah, that's a plan.
It's not a matter of jealousy, it's a matter of being disrespected.
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Just for today, I will be a blessing to someone.
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