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phoenixrising
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Re: Friends after divorce? [Re: phyzguy]
      #206323 - 05/20/08 10:23 PM (96.229.237.209)
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After telling me that he needs to leave me b/c he deserves better, there is no way in hell that I will ever be friends with him. I told him that the only time he will ever be allowed to call me is if one of our children ends up in the ER. Otherwise all communication needs to be limited to texting only (short and simple).

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Re: Friends after divorce? [Re: phoenixrising]
      #206368 - 05/21/08 07:41 AM (75.149.88.225)
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Glad I did not marry some of the ladies that are posting. Of course I would have probably dumped your ½ way threw the first date. LOL Good god bitter bitter bitter.

Look, if you have kids put the BS of the x marriage aside and do what’s right for the kids. No you don’t have to like them but why be a total Jackass because he said he deserved better etc etc etc


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Re: Friends after divorce? [Re: Motor-Head]
      #206372 - 05/21/08 07:51 AM (71.206.101.31)
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Thx HK....I appreciate you sharing the same sentiment...

My ex & I do everything for each other...We've both 'moved on' but still find it ez to be there for each other when the time comes.

Love, & memories..they don't have to fade away into indifference...you can still be in contact if you've learned to forgive and forget.

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Edited by Robfrommichigan (05/21/08 07:52 AM)


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Re: Friends after divorce? [Re: WhatNext]
      #206394 - 05/21/08 08:48 AM (65.165.5.70)
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[quote] So then it is just a matter of time until you stop being "friends" that hang out together. [/quote]

Probably. Yes.

Really no different than the relationship I have with any of my guy friends. Some of them moved away. We exchange Christmas cards, maybe an e-mail or two during the year.

I have no desire to drive a stake through the relationship I have with my X. If anybody else needs to do that, it's their business.


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Re: Friends after divorce? [Re: HardKnox]
      #206469 - 05/21/08 12:19 PM (66.76.220.190)
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My "x" wants to be friends too and I could do that (I think) EXCEPT his definition of being my friend is "being in my pants".........
If he wanted the milk he should have kept the cow!!!!!
I will not be his WH###.

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