Hello to all here at DS.com. My very first post as i just joined, should give a little of my recent background. I am a professional, 41yr old caucasian male, father to two sons. Divorce was back in aug. of 2006, and was pretty painful to be frank about it which i really didnt show to anyone, least of all my sons. This aside im struggling now with confidence issues when out amongst the dating scene, which i include all avenues thereof:
hobbys work kids activities
just really feeling left w/o the usual zest around women, and would like some thoughts from anyone experiencing same, anyone who has been here and made it to greener grounds. Joined this forum to make some friends so dont be afraid to say hi, men and women.
tip: always be a gentlemen. be honest, don't rush, don't do something you don't like, and most important don't be afraid nor hesitate.
I'm just now getting back into dating myself. Currently on first girl atm and it's kinda scary as I have been out of practice for quite some time. I don't feel sparks but I do enjoy the companionship. Still working hard getting over my issues and removing those old barriers that I built up on myself.
The thing is, gotta stick to it and do what your heart tells you.