coyefish
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been married a year, mom died in feb, supposidly affair started in april with coworker, i found out this past monday, i even told him we could work through this, the next day they sign a lease on an apartment together, she's married too, i was always paranoid with him from the beginning, but he assurred me the things like (myspace ) were not a big deal, i had never been paranoid like this before with anybody but this was my first marriage and my mother was ill at the time, so WE blamed the thoughts on my emotional issues and insecurities, he did treat me like a queen until that night now we haven't talked for longer than 30 minutes total, another issue is he also got his "greencard" from me, i need help, i still love him, would take him back but i know it wouldn't work b/c i could never trust him
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Sarah1014
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This man is a piece of crap. Get rid of him asap.
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coyefish
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he has his passport, i'm worried he's gonna flee
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Samsung
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Wave goodbye as he leaves, and never look back.
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Sarah1014
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ROTFLMAO!!!!
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coyefish
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but if he left now i wouldn't get the justice i deserve and help with the debt we have. but i'm just taking it day by day. trying to get a lawyer faster, no appt. til june 3rd! so we'll see
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Samsung
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If you are looking for justice in a family court, expect to get none. It just doesn't happen there. Often, the person behaving badly gets rewarded to boot!
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gigi
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What is your debt for? Does he have money that you can get him to pay it? If he flees, he flees and there's not much you can do, other than figure out a way to pay the debt. Even the best lawyer can't squeeze blood out of a stone.
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gidget
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Reged: 06/15/08
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I am so sorry that you have to go through what you are, but please take from me who has forgiven four times...Once a cheater, always a cheater and nothing you do will ever change that in him....I can assure you that she will not be his last either....They get a high when they have to sneak around...He doesnt pay the bills with her...It's just fun at the moment...Wait, he will tire of it and the excitement will soon go away and he will be either at your door or on to the next...I am now going through it again and believe me, you will never trust him. I have lived the last five years worrying each day if I will be blind sided again....He stopped answering my questions about some behavior that I remember from previous times and gets offensive...I knew then, this is happening again....I have had enough and moving on this time...I deserve better than that....You will never get over the deciet, so move on with your life...You havent been married long enough to reap anything from him....Again, much luck....Get some counseling for you and always remember, it's not your fault. It's him and not you.....
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