taryn
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I can relate with the boo hooing about other things. My kids home life is going down in flames and quite frankly it turns my stomach. Dating is the least of my worries right now.
my kids are still having supervised visits and there is an on going saga in that areana.
so, im feeling you.
when the kids WERE going there i was SICK to my stomache all the time.
little kids..with big teenagers...NOT a good senario.
intersting the comparison...the teenager daughter of the gf im hearing is developing a nice reputation of HER own.
wow. what a paralell world.
you ARE in a different place than i am.
at least, for now my kids are SAFE...mostly.
this was just about a little tiny section of my life
and yes i MIGHT be ready to date.
but ive changed my overall mind on these two.
guy #1 im going to spell it out...hopefully he'll want to be friends. it could be lots of fun IF he wants to go that route. otherwise. ill have to bail.
guy #2. well he's the contact and leave me hanging King.
and i guess i liked him too much for me to find that to be okay. so im not going to go out with him either.
so.
basically.
i guess htis was a wasted thread.
BUT!
i did learn a lot about myself.
and what i value and that i CAN set decent
boundries.
so there you have it.
no dates for taryn for now.
sigh....anyone wanna go see a movie next weekend?
OH! my friend...NOT date...might want to join us.
well, unless i word it wrong.
sigh....
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cedc
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I'm sick to my stomach EVERY day. Little kids...with juvenile delinquents and he's an x con. And I wonder why my hair is falling out. Last year I had hair like Fabio and this year I look like Uncle Fester. Good times huh? Praying my kids are safe. Thank God Summer time 50/50 is starting back up and my lawyer is working her butt off for me. This needs to end, supervised is a dream for me.
What time does the movie start, and is she hot? ( Kidding)
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taryn
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What time does the movie start, and is she hot? ( Kidding
>>>>
movie time is 740 next weekend. pick the night.
my FRIEND is that guy
(who i hope will still be my friend) that i dont want to date
...but hey IM not too bad! (kidding....)
LOL.
fight for your kids.
that's the ONLY reason im letting this divorce continue on.
otherwise i would probably give on even some of the $$ stuff just to move on.
but the kid stuff..it is NOT something i will give up.
i will fight to the death for their safety
and even if i loose, i will go down trying.
okay.
back to the regularly scheduled program.
come to the movie.
im hot enough for a "non date"
and no one has to wonder if they are or
arent going to have sex!
LOL.
anyone else want to come?
OH!
instead lets all go to the driving range
or play darts!
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cedc
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She has no idea what is coming her way in terms of a fight for the kids. I walked away from pretty much every thing $$ wise just to position myself for this. Losing is not an option. I have great kids and would like to keep them that way Thank you very much.
Your friend is that guy!{ backpeddling quickly} Maybe a rain check?
Driving range or darts? Nice,where were you 22 years ago?
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taryn
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Your friend is that guy!{ backpeddling quickly} Maybe a rain check?
Driving range or darts? Nice,where were you 22 years ago?
well...see thing is last year i just STARTED learning the driving range thing,
and i want to learn the dart thing.
so...i guess i should have been more specific.
and....22 years ago i was probably wasting my evening at the movies instead of learning something fun! like
how to make that ball go straight and far or how to throw the dart to the bulls eye.
(i THINK i hve more bullseye potential than golf, but it's hard to say...)
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taryn
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Your friend is that guy!{ backpeddling quickly} Maybe a rain check?
>>>>yeah, but the FIRST guy, the nice one i want to be friends with.
NOT the other guy who calls, ims, emails..then vanishes like the wind....LOL.
plus,
i dont know if the nice guy is going to liek this friend thing at ALL....sigh.
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Armor
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As long as you are honest with him, it should be ok...and there is always the possibility that someday something more will grow from your friendship with him...after all, a good friendship is a great base for a relationship later if you change your mind about him in the future...
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picasso
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I may be out of line here, but this is just my opinion:
Once you start having sex with someone, I think its pretty much understood that means you are exclusive...at least in MY world it does.
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NO FATE
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tookway2much
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It's your very own personal vagina.... "Shake vigorously, and use when needed."
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I don't worry about the people in my past. There is a reason they are not in my future.
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taryn
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I may be out of line here, but this is just my opinion:
Once you start having sex with someone, I think its pretty much understood that means you are exclusive...at least in MY world it does.
picasso
that is how i feel! but youd be surprised hwo much that is NOT the norm.
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