mfergel
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So, I called the girl I had gone out on a walk with a few weekends ago. We had talked on the phone for a bit on Saturday. I called her last night. We were having decent phone conversation but her phone was breaking up (we were both on cells). She said she would call back later that night.......no call. Why say you'll call and not?
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Motor-Head
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Maybe she feel asleep. Maybe she did not feel like talking later. Could be many things. But if you really feel this makes ladies confusing your doom as its no big deal. Happens all the time with some girls, don’t take it personally.
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Solorider
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Her cell might have been dead. Maybe a friend dropped by. Maybe someone else called her. Maybe she passed out. Maybe an alien abducted her.....
Relax man...give her another call the next day.
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mfergel
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I sent her a text message this afternoon. Asked her to go mini-golfing with me this week. We are getting together Thursday....sweet. I'm supposed to give her a call after work.
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numbnms
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I sent her a text message this afternoon. Asked her to go mini-golfing with me this week. We are getting together Thursday....sweet. I'm supposed to give her a call after work.
aka her friends with benifits date fell through.
Just kidding M way to put yourself out there, be the man, be the one and all that jazz. I'm proud of you, as the saying goes...."you've come a long way baby" it only gets better from here.
As far as women are confusing....no s..t you just now figuring that out? No means yes unless it mean no then again it may mean maybe....no wonder I keep ending up in jail, going to stick with drugging them so I don't have to ask em <just kidding girls back off, and put those handcuffs away unless..........>
I really should work some today.
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mfergel
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LOL. I figure what have I got to lose being a pest. If she hasn't told me she's not interested, then maybe she doesn't know herself then. She's certainly not going to be interested if I don't show an interest in her. Ultimately, I'm separated and down the path to a divorce. The worst thing that could possibly happen to me in life has already happened (well, I guess there are some worse things) but I figure rejection from a stranger is a cakewalk at this point.
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ssrachel
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so are men! j/k
i'm glad you called her. from my standpoint as a woman (but not a dating one, so take this for what it's worth). some of us still like to keep it old-fashioned in the beginning stages and have the man do the asking. give her a chance. you never know.
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guitar82
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Hey,as long as she is interested in you,and it sounds like she is,you are the one who has just be yourself,have fun,and don't sweat it. If you are looking for a relationship,then,dude its gonna be hard. It will find you and it will be better,hopefully. I have meet many women who are just looking for a friend and someone to fill in the empty spaces.
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juliacinaz
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I have met many women who are just looking for a friend and someone to fill in the empty spaces.
And I have met many men who just want sex so they can go back to watching sports or their workaholic existance.
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taryn
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without even reading this i have a reply:
SO ARE MEN!
okay, now im going to read the thread....ill be back...
edited after reading this thread: okay, so men do this SAME thing. LOL. glad your going on a date.
have fun.
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Edited by taryn (06/03/08 08:15 PM)
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