tiredofnagging
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Again you can't seem to hit IGNORE. I give the $#%^& up. You are relentless in your inability to simply shut up when your so called advice is not wanted. Are you like the in-law that won't leave?
This is getting nowhere. I'm done here. Theanswerguy and stoltz are good people. They understand. They can read. They do not waste time over analyzing to death. And their advice has been awesome. Jada is an amoeba and Hard Knox is a hillbilly with bad language.
So rest assured that there has been useful advice. Just not a drop from you. Go fix someone else. Like yourself.
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malone
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[quote]You asked for constructive advice.
All wisecracks aside, here is some constructive advice:
Take a look at how you feel about yourself. Take a look at how you feel about your life. The way you feel isn't always the fault of other people. Sometimes the fault is within you if you're prepared to/want to/have the guts to acknoweldge it and do something about it.
You seem very angry with your life and the people around you. You lash out at all of us. Maybe some things deserve to be lashed out at. But most people manage to control that urge, you don't right now.
The best thing you could do for yourself is think very, very seriously about what's really eating you.
You need someone to help you get out of the rut you are in and I honestly think it's someone who can help you with Anger Management, Grief Counselling, maybe one, maybe both, maybe more.
But you could seriously improve your life and your outlook on life if you're prepared to take a long hard look at yourself and do something to help yourself.
The fact is, everyone going through a bad relationship does and has. Most people who go through a bad relationship figure out what they did to contribute to it.
Get some help, for your sake, as opposed to acknowledging anything I have to say.
Long after you've finished thinking of and saying all the shitty things you'll want to say in return to this post, I hope you'll come back to read this 'constructive advice' and maybe act on some of it. [/quote]
There is absolutely nothing wrong in anything I have said. But your reaction is predictable. I hope you do think about the above post at some stage. It is good advice and well-intended.
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malone
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Incidentally, rethink what you said. Answerguy DIDN'T actually give you any advice at all. His advice hasn't been 'awesome' - on account he didn't actually offer you any with regard your situation or yourself. He just did his own analysing of this thread, but he didn't actually advise you how to go forward from your situation at all.
There is plenty of good advice on this thread, but none is acceptable to you. That's your perrogative. Like I said, my advice was well-intended.
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tiredofnagging
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Lady, for the LAST time, you need to stop being a Dr Laura wannabee. You know nothing about me and failed to learn anything about me. You have to be told time and time again to READ MY POSTS. And when one asks you to not give him advice, be courteous and not do is. Don't offer your 2 cents when it's not wanted.
Just because I went on this board it doesn't mean I have to be forced to listen to your cackle and spew.
What gives you the g*ddamm right to tell people what YOU think they ought to know. Especially when they've made it clear enough they DO NOT WANT IT!!!
I don't understand why you don't get that.
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Jada
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[quote]Lady, for the LAST time, you need to stop being a Dr Laura wannabee. You know nothing about me and failed to learn anything about me. You have to be told time and time again to READ MY POSTS. And when one asks you to not give him advice, be courteous and not do is. Don't offer your 2 cents when it's not wanted.
Just because I went on this board it doesn't mean I have to be forced to listen to your cackle and spew.
What gives you the g*ddamm right to tell people what YOU think they ought to know. Especially when they've made it clear enough they DO NOT WANT IT!!!
I don't understand why you don't get that. [/quote]
Clearly, she IS reading your posts. She has even tried helping you. One has to wonder if your wife does try to help, but because it isn't what you want to hear, it's wrong.
Here is how to ignore a person.
Click on their screenname. At the bottom, there will be links, click on the one that says ignore this user. Viola! You no longer see the contents of that person's posts.
This is a public message board. You simply do not have the right to tell someone not to post to any particular thread. If you can't handle that, then public message boards are not the place for you.
Personally, I think a psychiatric hospital would be the perfect fit for you, but that's me.
BTW, Malone has been nothing but courteous in the face of your rude tirade. She has a lot more class than you could ever hope to have.
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tiredofnagging
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Loc: Las Vegas, NV USA
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Where Malone goes Jada is sure to follow. Ever have an original thought?
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Jada
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*** You are ignoring this user ***
I suggest you follow the directions that I gave you about ignoring users. Then all you see from them is the above.
It's really not that complicated.
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tiredofnagging
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[quote] Personally, I think a psychiatric hospital would be the perfect fit for you, but that's me. [/quote]
As long as you breathe, the psych ward is where you should be. All d*kes are welcome.
I really don't know why I'm still on this playground (some of you excepted, and you know who you are and I thank you]...if it's OK that I get to decide who is helpful you f*cking nazi.
I am going to be taking a few days off to work on our relationship and I am entered in one of the WSOP events.
Furthermore, if I wanted to IGNORE I would have. At least I didn't make promises I couldn't keep.
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theanswerguy
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You are free to ignore their comments as well . This thread seems to be devoloping in to a piss ing contest to see who can get the last word in .
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Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what's right. Isaac Asimov
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tiredofnagging
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Loc: Las Vegas, NV USA
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TY for you insight. Yes there has been reached a time where a p*ssing contest only results in getting p*ssed on, and this too must end. I am done. I received more aggravation than necessary although I stoked the flames with these creatures.
BTW, I googled Isaac Asimov. Science fiction writer...didn't know he was a philospher or been on this BB. LOL. I've been to Russia twice and am fascinated by anything Russian.
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