juliacinaz
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I have been on a enuff first dates to fill a book with the details. I had one guy drop me off so he could go and have real fun! Then he grabbed my breast and ran to his truck! I had another tell me all about his twitch from the seizure he had the week before. Another who got mad cause I beat him at ms pacman.
I have had 3 "relationships" since my divorce 4 years ago. The first one lasted 9 months...he loved my kid and drove me insane with his lack of class. He wore a t-shirt that had an arrow pointing to his crotch that said free breathalizer test here.
The second one lasted 4 months..he was on the road for work and stood me up more than we had dates. He dumped me on Xmas.
The third is a long distance relationship with a guy I met on one of these online forums. We fell for each other over the phone and webcam. When we met he was not what I had imagined and it has been going downhill since. We are supposed to talk today. I am supposed to break it off with him but we have airline tickets already paid for and it is complicated.
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cwag
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Loc: way down south
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i'm home. it wasnt awful; we had decent conversation. not anyone i really am interested in seeing again. absoulty no chemistry. unfortuntaly i think he is more interested. will deal with that later! have a golf tournament to do in the morning (for work) so am gonna pull a scarlett adn worry about that tomorrow. it affirms that there are worst things than being single woulda been home an hour ago but had a few errands to run on the way home... so mr pat, i am safe and sound.... guess theres only one way to find out if you click. answer on this one is a no.
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movingon2
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Julia:
The description of your dating experience had me laughing. Oh my, sounds like we’ve got a lot to look forward to.
Cwag:
Thanks for sharing. Hey, no fireworks but at least it was an evening out : )
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justmejulia
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Quote:
Julia:
The description of your dating experience had me laughing. Oh my, sounds like we’ve got a lot to look forward to.
Oh I could have told you about the guy who practically tore my clothes off only to have erectile dysfunction! He kept saying doesn't that feel awesome and I was thinking doesn't what feel awesome? Like I was gonna lay there and pretend it was something it was not? I had to excuse myself and I ran to my car! OMG! This being over 45 and dating is for the birds! I am taking a long, long break!
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MarMcMar
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Loc: Western New York
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The very first guy I dated post-d was very tall and had large hands, but had a shwang the size of a cocktail weenie. literally. Now, after having given birth naturally to two kids, both 8 lbs. 11 oz with huge heads, I ain't the tightest drum of the bunch. It felt like having sex with air. Needless to say, climax never happened.
This, after being married to a guy (5'7" 145 lbs) who was hung like an x-large po*rn star. That is the one thing I miss about him. Wish I'd had his member cast in latex.
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norcal
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Julia….
I bet you would have a pretty interesting book covering the topic of forum/internet dating/relationships and all the drama and heart-ache that ensues! I sure could tell ya some stories!
You could make a fortune!
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juliacinaz
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OMG! Why do you think I have been putting up with current Long distance relationship? He is hung like a p*orn star! I can relate sista! Can I get in trouble for this thread? Oh well it is an interesting post that is fer sure! Anyways sex is not everything but it sure helps! I know I have put up with more crap from him than I would most men! But he knows that I like him best between the sheets and he is not so happy about that.
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regularguy
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Loc: RI
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Mar,
I thought that was you. Sorry we lost touch after that night of passion, thanks for the compliment about the hands - other than my HS hoop coach I've felt they've gone unnoticed and under appreciated for far too long.
Perhaps we could get together for a cup of coffee some time?
Sincerely,
The Air Man
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MarMcMar
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Loc: Western New York
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Heheheh. It was a night I'll never forget - for all the wrong reasons.
-------------------- The sweetest thing you'll ever see in the whole wide world is a happy girl.
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cwag
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Loc: way down south
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so to all of you with all this *wonderful* dating experience - how do you get them to back off afterwards? is their another way to say *you creep me out-leave me alone* that doenst sound quite that rude?
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