taryn
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Reged: 05/31/07
Posts: 2258
Loc: Hell...but im coming back up, ...
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sometimes i think that its fear and anger that are mistaken for saddness and longing at what 'should have been'.
i avoid contact like the plague.
i stay in the house, in the car, in the yard.
i pass the phone to the kids.
i avoid contact.
i do not yell.
i do not fight.
i do not respond.
but when my emotions make me THINK im sad...when really im worried about the future i tend to waffle a bit.
i think i get anger mixed up with sorrow.
i think i get fear mixed up with the 'why' questions.
i AM the no contact Queen...and i know that when i fight the contact and come out the winner.
i fought a recent battle within myself and won.
i am, today, Victorious.
taryn...self appointed Queen of No Contact...
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taryn.
Edited by taryn (06/19/08 12:34 AM)
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msty
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Reged: 11/16/07
Posts: 221
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I humbly submit my application for citizenship.
I think this is the best idea.
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Everything now is as it should be.
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theanswerguy
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Reged: 04/12/07
Posts: 2190
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You should be proud of yourself . Most consider avoidance of conflict to be a weakness . Personally , I believe it to be a sign of strength , an ability to lay down one's own self-interest to be proven right for the ultimate good .
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Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what's right. Isaac Asimov
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phyzguy
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Reged: 05/15/08
Posts: 358
Loc: Cali
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Taryn-
I pledge allegiance to thee. Accept me into thine state, oh fair queen.
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Tibi ipsi esto fidelis
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kent
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Reged: 06/13/07
Posts: 2981
Loc: a melted glacier
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All hail Queen Taryn! All hail Queen Taryn!
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Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.
Dr. Seuss
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MarMcMar
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Reged: 11/06/06
Posts: 1591
Loc: Western New York
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Well then, I'm the princess. But it's a lot easier for me, in that our kids are grown and we have no earthly reason to be in touch. But, I do get sentimental and misty and miss him (miss my intact family) now that all the smoke has cleared. Any way you slice it, it's not easy, this divorce business.
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The sweetest thing you'll ever see in the whole wide world is a happy girl.
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happytobdivorced
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Reged: 03/15/07
Posts: 1118
Loc: Hell, USA
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I am your faithful servant! No contact is the only way I have been able to survive the past 2 1/2 years.
Remember "do not feed the beast". That is what I tell myself when I am tempted to give my ex-dick a piece of my mind! If you don't give them anything to feed off of-they go away.
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Message for my ex "I think you know by now, I'm not the person I used to be"
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Mr.Revenge
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Reged: 04/28/08
Posts: 330
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If I can't be King, I am Prince at the very least.
In 1 year and through 3 court hearings, I have spoken about 20 words to her (all after the April 2008 hearing, and it was about my step-kids I love so much) and she has spoken about 10 to me (same place, except then she walked 20 feet and sucked 'sukked' face with my cousin in the courthouse).
NO CONTACT WITH THE A-HOLES THAT BETRAYED US!!!
God Save the QUEEN!!!!!!!
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abbysfv
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Reged: 02/13/08
Posts: 687
Loc: LA, CA
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Every time I have any contact with the stbx it just re-enforces the decision to divorce.
Taryn good for you, you don't need the BS anyway.
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Recovering trusting dufus.
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germangirl631
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Reged: 04/04/08
Posts: 1043
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Is that BS=
Big Shot? or
Basturd Sukka? or
Bull Shit? or
Big Schlong?
Sorry, I'm feeling feisty today.
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