CityGirl
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Reged: 06/11/08
Posts: 920
Loc: Texas
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I'm trying to join Taryn, but mine calls me at work because he knows I won't answer the house or cell phone. But this time he claims he signing the divorce papers (he even had the gall to ask me if he should get a lawyer or not and I told him "I don't know, if you want to spend money on a lawyer, get one")! UUUGGGHHHH!!!! But, I'm hoping that will be the last time ever I have to talk to him. Now, if I could just get him out of my head!!!! Where's the vodka??
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newlife123
Gold
Reged: 11/04/07
Posts: 188
Loc: phila suburb-PA
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I'm in, can I bring chocolate? A girl has needs if others aren't being met:)
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aramis_wc
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Reged: 12/20/07
Posts: 64
Loc: California
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As a aimless wanderer in the wilderness of your kingdom, my liege...... It is good to see that the realm is strong.
Once in awhile, I come back to town to see how you all are and re-new myself in the struggle that we all face. It's been awhile but it's good to come back and remember the good fight for independence!!
Mark is strong.....Mark is wiser.....and I owe it all to the glory of No Contact!!!!!
Set me up a shot and a beer......to independence day!!!!
Aramis
-------------------- Loneliness - I can live with..... Stupidity is something I can't....... Aramis!
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scbeck
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Reged: 12/29/07
Posts: 894
Loc: New Brunswick Canada
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I believe I have been an alumni of the kingdom(queendom)for a while now but I have had a few slips off and on. Right now I kind of have to make contact to hand off my daughter for his visitation for the summer. It is her first visit with her dad since we separated 8 months ago. He will have to sign an agreement with pick-up and return dates and I am afraid getting that signature will lead to a fight. If he doesn't sign I have been instructedby my lawyer not let my daughter go and yet he still keeps saying he will not agree to a return date. And my 13 year old daughter tells me she is going weather I like it or not and I can't stop her. God I hope this doesn't get messy!!! This is what contact does to you!!!!
Once this necessary crap is done I vow once again to be back to NO MORE CONTACT.
Christine
-------------------- This is the first day of the rest of my life. Or maybe tomorrow will be.
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taryn
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Reged: 05/31/07
Posts: 2509
Loc: standing on the mountaintop! :...
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numbnms, this is your personal invitation to my country...
you missed the fireworks on the forth, and the maids shining the tiaras,
but it's still a nice place to be.
leave your cellphone turned off and at the door.
-------------------- taryn.
Edited by taryn (07/08/08 06:57 PM)
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taryn
Platinum
 
Reged: 05/31/07
Posts: 2509
Loc: standing on the mountaintop! :...
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Bumping for Mr. Revenge....
where you at????
get this bonfire going, dammit!
-------------------- taryn.
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chatter box
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Reged: 11/09/07
Posts: 1309
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I'm in 11 days now
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Mr.Revenge
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Reged: 04/28/08
Posts: 367
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Bonfire scheduled for Friday night...my daughter has to be there...it will be in the "NO CONTACT" courtyard. All are invited (BYOP..."Bring Your Own Pee).
I have not, nor do I intend to, read any of the cards or letters within which I spilled out my heart and soul...I started to read one of the flower cards the night they "appeared" and I felt like an A-Hole.
I placed my heart upon a chopping block with faith and loyalty, only to find out I was married to a heartless, feelingless "Butcher". (If a true "Butcher" is reading this, no harm intended...you get my analogy).
Anyhoo, bonfire ready to go Friday...I feel like such an ass for leaving myself so vulnerable to such an uncaring, unfeeling "thing" that I thought was my "partner" for life!!
Live and learn.
NO F-ING CONTACT!!! NO F-ING WAY!!!
PLEASE GOD, help me make this end. Enough is enough!!!!!
Bonfire Friday night...I think it will be outstanding to get rid of my heartfelt thoughts upon which I received SHIT!!!!!!!!!! (Sorry...little venting here).
I TOAST TO "NO CONTACT" and our Queen taryn.
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CityGirl
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Reged: 06/11/08
Posts: 920
Loc: Texas
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[quote] I feel like such an ass for leaving myself so vulnerable to such an uncaring, unfeeling "thing" that I thought was my "partner" for life!! [quote]
Mr. Revenge, you are not an ass. I think you are amazing. Your tbx will one day realize what a fantastic man she let slip out of her fingers and she will regret it. Don't let her spoil things for you in the future. I know TONS of women who would love to be treated and loved the way you apparently did. GET THAT BONFIRE GOING, but don't lose you!
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Mr.Revenge
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Reged: 04/28/08
Posts: 367
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CityGirl,
Thank you. I have not found "me" yet, but I think I'm just around the corner (hoping). I think I hear me laughing...almost forgot what that sounded like.
Bonfire Friday night...feel good about it, but at the same time it feels so much like I poured out my heart and soul to someone that just took it for granted and took me to the bank.
Burn Baby Burn!!!!!
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