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sophie_1008
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OUT OF STATE VISITATIONS
#213219 - 06/19/08 07:19 PM (208.71.141.186)

I AM GOING THROUGH A VERY BIG DILEMA. MY HUSBAND OF 4 1/2 YRS. MOVED OUT ALMOST 4 MONTHS AGO FROM MY HOUSE AND I FIND OUT I AM PREGNANT. WE ARE NOW SEPERATED DUE TO TOO MUCH VIOLENCE AND ABUSE FROM HIM. I FOUND OUT HE WAS SEEING ANOTHER WOMAN HOWEVER HE STILL WANTED A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME. BECAUSE I FOUND OUT OF THIS WOMAN I WAS SO UPSET WHEN I FOUND THEM TOGETHER I SLAPPED HIM, HE CALLED THE COPS AND I GET ARRESTED. I SPENT A NIGHT AND JAIL AND I DECIDED I WANT TO RETURN TO MY HOME STATE IN CALIFORNIA SINCE I ONLY MOVED OUT TO IDAHO BECAUSE OF MY HUSBAND. I HAVE 2 CHILDREN WHOS FATHER IS IN CALIFORNIA INCLUDING ALL MY FAMILY WHOM ARE VERY SUPPORTIVE. I HAVE NO ONE HERE TO HELP AND MY HUSBAND DOES NOT SUPPORT AT ALL. I AM NOT TO CONTACT HIM BY LAW. AND I REALLY WANT TO MOVE BACK HOME AFTER MY CASE FOR THE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS DONE. CAN HE FORCE ME TO STAY IN THE STATE OR CAN I MOVE WHILE THE DIVORCE IS PENDING IF HE FILES?

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jersey girl
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Re: OUT OF STATE VISITATIONS [Re: sophie_1008]
#213250 - 06/19/08 09:58 PM (71.201.60.237)

OK, first. Please turn off the caps. It is very hard to read and it feels like you are yelling.

Couple of things:
- Can you leave Idaho with a pending case against you?
- What does your ex want to do about the baby? If he wants to stop you, he can.

But - I would think that if you move now, it is better than after the baby.

I would also add that he has a right to be in this baby's life no matter what you say/feel/do. So, if he stays in Idaho, you will be traveling with that child.

Also - given that you have shown violence (don't need to hear the excuses), you need to be in anger management classes before you have this child.

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theanswerguy
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Re: OUT OF STATE VISITATIONS [Re: sophie_1008]
#213260 - 06/20/08 12:15 AM (205.188.117.143)

CAN HE FORCE ME TO STAY IN THE STATE OR CAN I MOVE WHILE THE DIVORCE IS PENDING IF HE FILES?

>>>>>>>>>> You are free to move wherever you like . IF he files Idaho would retain jurisdiction .

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Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what's right. Isaac Asimov

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