stoltz
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Bad guys really do get the most girls
http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg19826614.100-bad-guys-really-do-get-the-most-girls.html?DCMP=ILC-hmts&nsref=news4_head_mg19826614.100
That is until the "girls" realize later the bad guys cannot provide financially, so they marry some love-struck financially stable guy and make do. The poor guy thinks he's got a princess, but in reality, she's probably had 5-10x as many sex partners as him (if he's had any at all), and usually isn't "in the mood" any more. He's thinking a blissful matrimony, including sexual gratification on at least a semi-routine basis, but it turns out more like another sexless marriage.
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john1953
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But the "bad" guys as it turns out are really the smart guys.They don`t get married.They just have sex with the good guys wifes.Now i`am not talking from experience have you,just an observation.
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jbar
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...He's thinking a blissful matrimony, including sexual gratification on at least a semi-routine basis, but it turns out more like another sexless marriage.
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A marriage, that is, until she decides that she has given him enough of her time and is now ready for her money. She then divorces him, gets CS, alimony, "community property" and the house. Her old boyfriend then moves back in with her and everybody is once again happy--except, of course, the poor "good guy" who was foolish enough to believe in "love" and unaware of the way that politicians and judges had set him up!
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tiredofnagging
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[quote]Bad guys really do get the most girls
http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg19826614.100-bad-guys-really-do-get-the-most-girls.html?DCMP=ILC-hmts&nsref=news4_head_mg19826614.100
That is until the "girls" realize later the bad guys cannot provide financially, so they marry some love-struck financially stable guy and make do. The poor guy thinks he's got a princess, but in reality, she's probably had 5-10x as many sex partners as him (if he's had any at all), and usually isn't "in the mood" any more. He's thinking a blissful matrimony, including sexual gratification on at least a semi-routine basis, but it turns out more like another sexless marriage. [/quote]
I was a great guy who had a bad girl a loooong time ago. Tried to fix her. Busted her pushing drugs from my house.
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stoltz
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LOL! I left my post "open ended" thinking someone would see where I was going with it. You're exactly right ... All we generally hear in that vein of thinking is a man 'seweing his wild oats', but contrary to that perception, it is almost ALWAYS the female who has the more sexual partners in life. Of course, that isn't looked upon as taboo, and, in fact, is more generally considered another avenue that women are "helped" in life. For example, certain sexually transmitted diseases can cause cervical cancer in women, so some states (Texas being one of them) have adopted a vaccination given to ***14yr old GIRLS*** to help prevent the STD(s) from causing cervical cancer. Anyone else but me see the irony here?
It's unfortunate for the majority of men as we are forced by Nature/God/whatever to have a strong urgency of procreation. But it is usually only a small few of us (the "bad" guys, thugs, players) who are given the opportunity to react on this anatomical "slavery" - not because we ALL can't, but because the decision is not ours.
Thus women (albeit, not all) mainly in their youth are given a choice for what guys they will allow the satisfaction of copulating with. Bad guys, thugs, players are almost always the top of the pick, both in reality, and as we see from this study, scientifically. The GOOD guys - the ones who actually have the qualities that we were told would make good husbands - are cast aside. That is, until the women age, and nature starts playing a likewise cruel joke on them. The "bad" guys no longer have much to offer (read: no financial support) so the women start seeking the GOOD guys. A lot of these men fall for the whole trick by quickly find the sweet, innocent, and possibly good looking woman ain't all she she's cracked up to be once the knot is tied. but by then the trap has been set. Other men - especially today in this era of the internet and the vast amount of information at their fingertips - are starting to catch on, and are opting to say "NO" (or more like "H*LL NO") to marriage. I mean how many men out there would marry a woman knowing she had previously "done it" with 20, 30, 40, or more men, yet "decided" YOU were the one she would marry? Hmmmmm.
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tiredofnagging
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A losing battle if there ever was one. I don't have a clue why "good men" are passed up for such winners like druggies, liars, married men (now that's always classic even when they know it to be true) and others.
To be blunt, they reap what they sow.
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stoltz
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I have a feeling that many good men are starting to get it, and that may be the reason we are seeing more and more articles about men not being all that interested in marriage these days. Basically saying the women can have their thugs, players, and all-around bad boy toys, whilst ignoring those that would actually treat them right, but they better think twice once the proverbial well runs dry and they want to start settling down, 'cause it ain't happening (well, not to the good guys anyway). Maybe that's why the term "Cougar" is becoming more and more common in our society?
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abbysfv
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Or maybe you need to just spicy it up in the sack???
Anyway not all women go for the bad boys just like not all men go for the trophy wife.
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stoltz
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Or maybe you need to just spicy it up in the sack???
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Not sure what this has to do with the thread as you have to get IN the sack first.
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Anyway not all women go for the bad boys just like not all men go for the trophy wife.
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No doubt. Although, I'm willing to bet my soul that there are a heckuva LOT more women who've "done it" with the "bad boy" types than there are "good boys" who've done it with "trophy" women. And I do mean a LOT more.
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abbysfv
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OH I thought someone mentioned a problem with a sexless marriage, that's why I brought up the spice it up comment.
Yes it is easier for women to get sex so I agree, there are probably more women that have done it with a bad boy then men with the trophy woman. Also I think it has more to do with being an alpha male then being a bad boy. I think bad boys are often alpha's.
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