mfergel
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hehehehe........I got called a girl. :-)
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cedc
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Exactly. How would you feel about your man as he did nothing while some dude is groping you? What would you say to him about it? Awwwww, it's ok honey. I was just letting him have a pity squeeze because he's the biggest dork in the book club. To make up for it, you can wash my pantyhose when we get home, OK princess?
I'd imagine most women would be pissed that he did nothing about it.
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liberated
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What kind of man would stare at the floor while another man is grabbing his GFs ASS? Even using the term "f*uck" in her presense?
We don't tolerate that kinda behavior in Wisconsin.
Not even in the tavern.
No man I'd be interested in. Call me old-fashioned but I like to think my man can protect me, in both body and honor. Maybe I CAN take care of myself, but it's nice to know someone's backing me up. Recently I saw a TV preacher talking about the role of the husband (slash BF) and he called him the Umbrella Fella. HE should be the one to provide the covering over the woman.
THAT'S what I want. Not some namby pamby who doesn't follow through on his promise. Remember, BF already warned the dood what would happen if he dared grab again... the line in the sand was drawn.
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taryn
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I'd imagine most women would be pissed that he did nothing about it.
yeah.
it would kind of SUK! if your guy (aka husband)
didnt give a shit, blamed you, or
said somehting to the affect of
i cant believe he'd grap YOUR fat ass.
MUCH better senario to ahve a guy CARE!
(even if it does result in a little police report  )
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norcal
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I’m having a hard time understanding these responses. SO if I understand the majority of replies, even if the grabbing was made by an ex-husband, an ex-husband where children are involved, which would mean repercussions if there was a physical confrontation…… it’s still warranted?
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numbnms
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I’m having a hard time understanding these responses. SO if I understand the majority of replies, even if the grabbing was made by an ex-husband, an ex-husband where children are involved, which would mean repercussions if there was a physical confrontation…… it’s still warranted?
Yes, he was warned, he crossed the line there must be consequences. Im not saying we shouldnt be beyond that stage in our evolutionary progress but the fact remains we are not. The men that are willing to behave in such a manner aka grabbing someones a$$, are the same men that will only respond to a beat down, anything less and they think they got away with it and will continue to do so.
I'm sorry but that is just how it is.
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cedc
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Hey baby! *Honk* *Honk* grab,feel. Remember when we used to do this all the time? You used to love that. We had kids together so it's obviously OK for me to grab your boobs and squeeeeeze like there is no tomorrow,right? And in a public place? That's HOT!
Wrong. This dude should be beaten into next Saturday. You are no longer a couple and what you USED to do is over.Period.
Why not just bang the dude, it's OK you had kids togehter right? I didn't think so. He is disrespectfull = pounding.
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RIDERDOWN
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Ok, I haven't posted anything in a long time but this one has my interest.
While that kind of behavior is illegal, immoral, inappropriate, etc, the bottom line is that it shows a marked lack of respect for the grabee by the grabber.
The idiot was first asked to stop, then warned, now its time for action. I'm afraid I wouldn't have had the patience to come here and post it as a question. I probably would have just given him a good smack in the mouth and asked him if he heard me this time.
These are the kind of people that laws are written for. Unfortunately, these are also the kinds of people who don't bother to care about said laws. These are the kinds of people who frequent the Jerry Springer show, who watch Springer and think the grab ass is perfectly ok and don't get it when others look at them with utter disgust.
So Ryno, if you haven't yet handled the situation, go ahead. Let him have it.
P.S. Norcal, what makes an ex or social acquaintance any different than a perfect stranger when it comes to this kind of disrespectful behavior?
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Nish
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Ryno,
Yes, I am a woman! I also am a woman who carries a loaded hand and have slapped a couple guys who stepped over the line, in my youth. Usually with the line "Oh gee, did my hand just happen to make contact with your face?"
My Dad taught me early on, that if the situation ever arised, that I needed to make a very clear and bold statement that I would not tolerate an unwelcomed advance. He and my Mom also taught me there are safety in numbers, and that I should always be very aware of my surroundings and not knowingly put myself in a situation where possible harm might happen to me.
Like I said, only slapped a couple guys. To be honest, never had a man touch me or say anything like that to me, when I have been with the man in my life. Just never happened.
This will lead to an interesting conversation with my husband tonight. I plan to ask if a person touched me inappropriately when he was around, what would he do.
Never had a man be in a fight over me. If that his how he would choose to handle the situation if we were out together, trust me, I wouldn't hesitate for a moment to bail him out of jail if he were arrested. I however would also be slapping assualt charges on the offending person, and do whatever I needed to, so that he would be sentenced to the full extent of the law.
I am not a pacifist, just not one to be confrontational, if other means are available to me. My cellphone travels wherever I go, and now that I am no longer a "young chick" I haven't smacked a guys face in over 25 years.
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juliacinaz
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Well I had an ex boyfriend do it to me and it was just awful. He had asked me to come over and pick up a few things I had left at his apartment. He was moving and did not want to throw them away. I went and he grab assed me hard and then smacked me on the rear end hard. I wanted to knock him into next week. But I kept my cool and made my way away from him knowing I would not have to see him again. I was wrong...he moved back with a new wife and later on I had to set him straight about inappropriate behavior.
So again I say knock his teeth out with those floor draggin knuckles! I wish someone had taught me how to punch or fight. I have been hit and I am leary of throwing the first punch or slap. I have been slapped back so I won't start any violence. I have learned there are many men that just do not know or care to obey rules.
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