HardKnox
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No she has not said it out right but makes comments about how I have consumed her life and how good she feels since we started talking etc.
Sounds like "all is well" at this point.
Like Sarah says, love takes time to grow. I piled into a sexual relationship with MY X on the second date and we ended up spending 15 years together, most of which were pretty good. Just because you didn't fall in love with each other FIRST and THEN begin a sexual relationship doesn't mean you've done anything wrong.
Who wouldn't be afraid post-D?
I'm scared shitless my damn SELF.
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Motor-Head
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Julia, call me
LOL
Ya she kind of let the cat of the bag with that responsive.
But I know exactly what Julia is saying
.I mean if you’re going to wait for love first I think some will never have sex again .
Your choice I guess LOL
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Sarah1014
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I agree, all is well. Take things as they come.
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MarMcMar
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Was dating a guy from Plenty of Fish for a while & had no connection - other than the physical. We had only kissed, but boy was it hot.
One night, over dinner, I just realized I could never love him. He's not smart/curious enough for me. I knew I'd lose interest.
Upon breaking up, I mentioned that I thought he was hot and we'd prob. be great sex partners (let him know what he does right), but aside from working out, we have nothing in common.
He jumped right on that and offered to be my FWB. Said he'd be discreet and that he's "clean." Well, I must say, I was tempted. FB - whenever I needed him, no strings, could continue my search for Mr. Right, while getting laid by hot athletic guy. Hmmmmm ...
Naaaaah.
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cedc
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Feels good to me! I too loved my wife,very deeply. But you know what? I didn't love her when we started having sex, that love grew.
I say go for it. It happens,great! It doesn't, that's great too. It will find you eventually.
When all else fails there is always p0rn. Surfs Up!
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The main reason Santa is so jolly is because he knows where all the bad girls live.-George Carlin
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taryn
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while im NOT saying everyone should start whoring around.
and that i think it's best to be in a committed relationship.
(okay, really my BELIEFS are you should save it for marriage...but...well, you know...sigh...)
i would be WAY to scared to start having some intense feelings for some,
then sleeping with someone who you love or are starting to love
is just WAY to scary.
it probably would be unbelievably intense,
but then i would proably hit the door running.
im too vulnerable to 'feel' right now,
and
too stupid to choose guys worthy of those feelings.
so NOW, im (well, not really dating) going to do a dating with 'no sex' thing. im curious how it will play out!
will i cave in? how long till im dumped?
if i wait, THEN cave in...is it because ive developed feelings?
goodness.
i am SERIOUSLY not ready to re-date!
sigh.
good thing for friends or id be lonely as hell.
therapy, therapy, therapy...
ps. cedc....stay away from that p0rn...no good will come of that for your future relationships! youve been through too much and i want your next real relationship to be awesome! 
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Edited by taryn (06/26/08 02:12 PM)
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Solorider
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I'm having a ton of absolutely fantastic sex with one woman. I like her a lot...do I love her? I dunno...We are seeing each other 3-4 times a week. We talk, we laugh, we have sex, we talk, we have sex....life is something else. A couple weeks ago I was so down in the dumps but everytime I see her I come out of it. We talk about our relationship and are just going to let things go as they go. No pressure...just lots of sex! I never thought I'd feel this way again.
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HardKnox
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Loc: Wisconsin
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"I think this woman I slept with might have given me herpes."
Is THIS the woman you're having all kinds of fantastic sex with?
We've all been waiting for an answer.
*foot tapping*
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Motor-Head
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OMG that would put a stop to it all 4 me
Might even put the thing in a vise and sqeeeezzzz the shit out of so it wont work LOL
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cedc
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Yeah,I want my next relationship to be awesome too. But have you ever seen it on a big flat screen TV?? Jebus H! Talk about reach out and touch someone!
The woman with the slobbery dog wasn't home and my kids were at the X's. Your never alone when ya gots the p0rn.
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