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Re: The feeling of sex without love. [Re: Motor-Head]
      #215490 - 06/27/08 01:02 PM (71.164.49.119)
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I can't remember the difference. The past twelve years was anything but love making.
I use to laugh my fat butt off when he would say things "I'll make it up to you later tonight." I use to think he was bringing a friend over. he! he! he! Because I knew darn well he wasn't doing nothing but causing me to take two showers in one night. LOL

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Re: The feeling of sex without love. [Re: tookway2much]
      #215524 - 06/27/08 02:26 PM (209.205.181.33)
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Personally, I prefer NSA sex. Though, I cannot have sex with somebody that I don't have chemistry with. Since my Seperation, I've had sex with 4 guys, one I met off Craigslist, another is an FWB I met 4 years ago, another is a friend from another site and the 4th is my neighbour. I prefer no strings, no emotions. At this point, I simply do not trusts myself. I do not want my heart broken so I am having fun.

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Re: The feeling of sex without love. [Re: Motor-Head]
      #215563 - 06/27/08 06:44 PM (69.115.64.195)
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I think sex is highly over-rated. But then, my ex is the only man I have had sex with to date and, well, it really wasn't all that good. It was somewhat better in the beginning. Towards the end, though, I avoided it. Got tired of telling him what I liked and him not hearing me.

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Re: The feeling of sex without love. [Re: Heidi]
      #215579 - 06/27/08 07:56 PM (99.142.33.73)
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As always, Heidi and I are of a like mind. Although I may be more willing to F anything with a heartbeat as my sometimes GF accuses me of.

Sex is sex, love is love. I don't need to love someone to be interested in having sex with them but a feeling for one another does enhance the experience and repeat encounters make for better sex and usually lead to feelings.

I have had sex with more people in my post divorce period than I did before and I intend on increasing that number every year. However, I never met someone off of Craigslist.

BTW, if Heidi and I were to live near each other could you imagine the kinky parties we would throw?


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Re: The feeling of sex without love. [Re: lairdude]
      #215581 - 06/27/08 07:58 PM (74.229.131.247)
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Swingtown 2008???

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Re: The feeling of sex without love. [Re: Heidi]
      #215583 - 06/27/08 08:04 PM (99.142.33.73)
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The tv show with that name takes place in the northern burbs of Chicago near where I grew up so it would just fit right in.

But being a few decades later and with the internet perhaps we could do it up a little better. Franchises, internet participation? A voyeur/ exhibitionist room in honor of me a BDSM one for you?


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Re: The feeling of sex without love. [Re: Jada]
      #215663 - 06/28/08 12:52 PM (69.145.57.201)
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I think sex is highly over-rated. But then, my ex is the only man I have had sex with to date and, well, it really wasn't all that good. It was somewhat better in the beginning. Towards the end, though, I avoided it. Got tired of telling him what I liked and him not hearing me.




Well, sex is like pizza....even bad pizza is still usually pretty good...lol...I'd imagine you might rate it a bit higher when you experience somebody who is a better lover than your ex. Sometimes people just don't click well together sexually, but when they do, it can be great.

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Re: The feeling of sex without love. [Re: Armor]
      #215695 - 06/28/08 04:57 PM (74.229.131.247)
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Sometimes people just don't click well together sexually, but when they do, it can be great.




Agreed, when the chemistry is awesome, sex is amazing..

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Re: The feeling of sex without love. [Re: Heidi]
      #216061 - 06/30/08 02:39 PM (122.168.9.39)
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I totally disagree with you, but whatever…it’s the way you think and everyone has their own way of going on in life.

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Re: The feeling of sex without love. [Re: justmejulia]
      #216090 - 06/30/08 04:35 PM (65.81.100.202)
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Julia, call me




PM me your number!

Trust me this attitude has made me quite popular. I am not sure how I feel about the men I am attracting though!

I have been on POF and I have about 8 men chasing me presently. Two are just shameless! I am having fun with it though and at least I am not crying in my beer over the ex!




So where you live? I have a few days off coming up so ....

Actually I think the first woman that takes me up on one of my suggestions when I am in a flirty mood will most likely.....scare the hell out of me!

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