to visit for a month and that I said he can only see him for a week. He hasn't called the kids in over 2 weeks and didn't return phone calls this week 'til today. He calls him when he only has a 10 minute break and tells him that I will only allow him to go visit for a week. He never asks to speak to E (she said she hasn't spoken to him for about a month). This is news to my son about visitation, as I don't discuss this stuff with him and being that there is still no order or even any mediation date, I saw no reason to discuss any specifics anyhow. Of course his dad tells him to ask me why...I stated the truth, "your dad hit you last time and I want to make sure your safe and that it doesn't happen again." He says "good, I don't want that to happen anymore either."
What a butthole my ex is. He had no reason to state this to J, other than to try and put me on the spot and get J upset at me. It didn't work, but the nerve. He can't call the kids for weeks, he hasn't done what he needs to in order to even get summer visitation yet he's telling J that I won't let him go...ughhh, I want to wring his neck.
i'm sorry mistake. there are some guys out there that are a piece of work. they make the good ones (like my current hubs) look bad.
he is trying to cause a wedge between you and your son. he is using anything he can to poison your child's mind. you did the right thing by explaining to your child why you did it. good for you! good luck!
-------------------- to my ex - what goes around, comes around. you'll get yours...
Some ex-wives out there are a piece themselves. Mine keeps booking trips and events with the kids during my visitation without telling me first but goes ahead and tells the kids, then tells the kids I'm being a jerk if I complain or try to stand up for my visitation rights. She makes twice what I do so she buys them big trips and show tickets and stuff all of the time, yet the one time I took my kids shopping for a few items she accused me of being a "Disney Dad". She's the one who already took the kids to Disney 2x over the past 6 months! What a hypocrite! And she doesn't care about Court and attorney fees so she's fighting me tooth and nail on everything, and has the audacity to nickel and dime me on everything and demand money for every expense above the almost $3G's I give her monthly for child support! I should have demanded alimony! If she keeps this up, maybe I will...
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