sophie_1008
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My children and I have been victims of domestic violence abuse in every way by my husband for 4 yrs. I found my husband with another woman and due to that I became furious naturally in that moment slapped my husband and missed. He put me in jail anyway not to mention in front of my children and I am 4 mnths pregnant. I now am a batterer in the eyes of the law even under the circumstance. Can he use this against me to take my children even if he has couple charges he's been convicted for towards me? Please help.
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Jada
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[quote]My children and I have been victims of domestic violence abuse in every way by my husband for 4 yrs. I found my husband with another woman and due to that I became furious naturally in that moment slapped my husband and missed. He put me in jail anyway not to mention in front of my children and I am 4 mnths pregnant. I now am a batterer in the eyes of the law even under the circumstance. Can he use this against me to take my children even if he has couple charges he's been convicted for towards me? Please help. [/quote]
Is he the father of the children? If not, he has no legal standing.
Given that he has been convicted for doing the same thing you did, he doesn't exactly have clean hands.
I suggest you contact a lawyer and start attending anger management classes. Do you really want your kids to learn to handle their anger with violence? Because between you and your husband, that is what they are learning.
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tiredofnagging
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[quote]I suggest you contact a lawyer and start attending anger management classes. Do you really want your kids to learn to handle their anger with violence? Because between you and your husband, that is what they are learning. [/quote]
[quote]Personally, I think a psychiatric hospital would be the perfect fit for you, but that's me. [/quote]
Well Jada, it would seem that all the flaming I received by the likes of you officially has no credibility. You seem quite happy to chime in and mind other peoples business (like mine) but it appears that you yourself have some issues.
Anger management? Sounds familiar. Psychiatric hospital? Perhaps we can attend the same self help programs. Except I'm not a batterer.
"Oh, my poor wife, how does she take it?" Puhlease. Your utter and shameless hypocrisy has been exposed. At least I never struck her. No matter the reason. Unlike you, whose display of temper might cost you your family.
I have no pity for you.
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Jada
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[quote][quote]I suggest you contact a lawyer and start attending anger management classes. Do you really want your kids to learn to handle their anger with violence? Because between you and your husband, that is what they are learning. [/quote]
[quote]Personally, I think a psychiatric hospital would be the perfect fit for you, but that's me. [/quote]
Well Jada, it would seem that all the flaming I received by the likes of you officially has no credibility. You seem quite happy to chime in and mind other peoples business (like mine) but it appears that you yourself have some issues.
Anger management? Sounds familiar. Psychiatric hospital? Perhaps we can attend the same self help programs. Except I'm not a batterer.
"Oh, my poor wife, how does she take it?" Puhlease. Your utter and shameless hypocrisy has been exposed. At least I never struck her. No matter the reason. Unlike you, whose display of temper might cost you your family.
I have no pity for you. [/quote]
Uh, I wasn't the original poster. The person that I quoted was. She is the one who hit her husband.
In my marriage, it was my ex who flew off the handle.
BTW, the likes of you have no credibility whatsoever. You don't even have reading comprehension. If you did, you would know that it was the original poster who flew off the handle and hit her husband.
I never said you struck your wife. But that doesn't mean that you aren't abusing her. Verbal/emotional/psychological abuse is what you are doing. Just going by your posts here.
And if you don't want people commenting on your business, then stop posting it on a public message board.
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tiredofnagging
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Uh, yes you did. Or maybe it was malone. Can't really tell the difference.
What goes around comes around.
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Jada
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[quote]Uh, yes you did. Or maybe it was malone. Can't really tell the difference.
What goes around comes around. [/quote]
I didn't say you struck your wife. I did say you were abusive, though. And I stand by that.
What goes around comes around? You are the one who said that I hit my ex based on a post where someone else admitted to hitting her husband.
All you have shown is that you lack reading comprehension.
I never hit my ex.
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tiredofnagging
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[quote] And if you don't want people commenting on your business, then stop posting it on a public message board. [/quote]
Your words.
[quote] All you have shown is that you lack reading comprehension. I never hit my ex [/quote]
Sounds like you just missed. Still enough to get cuffed. A model citizen. You should have nothing to say.
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malone
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[quote]Uh, yes you did. Or maybe it was malone. Can't really tell the difference.
What goes around comes around. [/quote]
What goes around comes around? It sure does. The only person who talked of striking his wife, was YOU. You can't re-write history, Nagger.
I never said it, you did. I just happened to be the person who pointed out your words to everyone on the forum. And I'll do it again.
[quote]Constructive advise is not only appreciated but necessary. Otherwise I feel like pounding some sense into her.[/quote]
Yes, that was you. And guess what? There are lots of forms of abuse. Physical is only one. Verbal and emotional are just two of the others. A good example of them are this:
[quote].......so if I want to be a single Dad I've got to prove that my wife is unfit. That may be a task except she's threatened to leave "both of us" recently. Maybe the thing to do is get things like that on tape. [/quote]
[quote]You come across as yet another bitter ex-wife who wonders why your marriage didn't work. Look in the dictionary under b!tch. Then look in the mirror. Same answer, yes?[/quote]
I'm sure you'll remember theses quotes better than anybody. You said all of them and they're only a few of the many unpleasant things you've said on this forum. And they're there for everyone to see on the posts you made. So don't start complaining that people are saying things about you when you were the one who said them. You have yourself to blame.
One last thing, stop coming on here just to give all the women here your sick insults. You might despise women. But it just so happens that most of us here, men and women alike, are friends. When you come on here and insult people like Abby, Tarryn, Jada, Julia and more, you insult our friends.
So take your foul words and find some other place for them until you can come back on here and be civil.
Better still, why not make some long overdue apologies. You could start right here with Jada.
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mistake#2
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[quote] All you have shown is that you lack reading comprehension. I never hit my ex [/quote]
Sounds like you just missed. Still enough to get cuffed. A model citizen. You should have nothing to say. [/quote]
Are you really that tendentious against a woman who points out your mistakes?
Re-read the WHOLE post, if you haven't done so already...cause you are WAYYYY off base and are slinging accusations that have no basis because of your own inability to read and comprehend a post.
Is this how you deal with your own wife? Twist words and slew accusations?
To the original poster - we got off base due to some unnecessary mud slinging that needed to be addressed, but in response to your post: You are justifying trying to hit your spouse because of specific actions and anger, there is no justification. You could just as easily have walked away. As far as him getting custody of the kids, if you have one conviction and he has more...then common sense would say that although both of you need counseling and some parenting classes that more than likely you'll be more likely than him to get custody.
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sophie_1008
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First of all to TIRED OF NAGGING you should be tired of being an idiot because of all your idiotic responses whom you were nagging to was the wrong person. I am the one that you should have said it to. But anyway everyone is right you have no reading comprehension. First off I never once asked for pity or even said that what i did was right. I am aware that what i did was such a waste of my time because all i did was stoop down to my [censored] husbands level and his tramps. So next time you decide to give advice make sure it is advice not criticism because this is Divorce SUPPORT not Divorce Criticise!
Edited by sophie_1008 (07/10/08 09:40 PM)
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