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sophie_1008
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Re: Abuse to my advantage? [Re: Jada]
      #218365 - 07/10/08 09:46 PM (69.92.63.244)
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For you Jada I didn't get to hit my husband for one. You obviously dont have reading comprehension either. I mentioned that I missed. What was i supposed to feel like walking in with my 2 children and pregnant finding my husband in bed with a tramp! I shouldnt have missed maybe it would have been worth being put in jail getting cuffed in front of my children and then getting treated like crap in jail pregnant or not they dont give you any special treatment. Hope you never go through what i went through. Easy to say and criticise unless you lived it!

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Re: Abuse to my advantage? [Re: sophie_1008]
      #218367 - 07/10/08 10:00 PM (69.115.64.195)
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[quote]For you Jada I didn't get to hit my husband for one. You obviously dont have reading comprehension either. I mentioned that I missed. What was i supposed to feel like walking in with my 2 children and pregnant finding my husband in bed with a tramp! I shouldnt have missed maybe it would have been worth being put in jail getting cuffed in front of my children and then getting treated like crap in jail pregnant or not they dont give you any special treatment. Hope you never go through what i went through. Easy to say and criticise unless you lived it! [/quote]

So, I didn't get the missed part. What you did was still wrong. And taught the kids that violence is the way to deal with a problem.

Lived it? I can say that I never even tried to hit my ex. He was the one who was physically abusive.

What was you supposed to feel like? Probably hurt and angry. What were you supposed to do? Leave and file for divorce would have been a more appropriate way of handling the situation that wouldn't have taught your kids violence.

BTW, your hands are still just as dirty as his are.


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Re: Abuse to my advantage? [Re: Jada]
      #218613 - 07/12/08 02:10 AM (68.108.57.232)
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Some things never change. Miss know it all jada has all the answers. But my break from all this was pleasant/

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Re: Abuse to my advantage? [Re: tiredofnagging]
      #218778 - 07/13/08 10:24 AM (24.94.123.111)
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[quote]Some things never change. But my break from all this was pleasant/ [/quote]

I think your right, you will never change. It was pleasant for us as well...too bad it didn't change anything on your part. I feel bad for your wife if you twist words so much with a bunch of strangers, I'm sure you twist all the past you have with her as well.


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Re: Abuse to my advantage? [Re: mistake#2]
      #218810 - 07/13/08 02:55 PM (68.108.57.232)
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[quote] BTW, your hands are still just as dirty as his are. [quote/]


I guess I did misread the post. I am sorry for the mistake but that's where it ends. Actually did sound like jada wrote it. Oh well, whatever.

Still doesn't make some of you the judge and jury, bunch of advice nazis.

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Re: Abuse to my advantage? [Re: mistake#2]
      #218822 - 07/13/08 04:04 PM (75.185.135.104)
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the funny thing is that tiredofnagging rags on the 'bad advice' from the women whom he insults so regularly.
BUT he continues to respond and comment on the very posts he loathes.
like he's LOOKING for the posts just so he can make some mean and (...since he has reading comprehension issues) irrelevant comment.

i guess it's not funny.
he's such a bully.
so it's typical and predictable.

im sure ill get a nice array of insults and comments from him based on this post.

but...YIPPEE for the option to NOT read it! :)

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Re: Abuse to my advantage? [Re: taryn]
      #218929 - 07/14/08 03:50 AM (68.108.57.232)
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[quote]the funny thing is that tiredofnagging rags on the 'bad advice' from the women whom he insults so regularly.
BUT he continues to respond and comment on the very posts he loathes.
like he's LOOKING for the posts just so he can make some mean and (...since he has reading comprehension issues) irrelevant comment.

i guess it's not funny.
he's such a bully.
so it's typical and predictable.

im sure ill get a nice array of insults and comments from him based on this post.

but...YIPPEE for the option to NOT read it! :) [/quote]


So don't read it. Simple. But you will cause you cant help it. Children. Sorry, no insults.

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Re: Abuse to my advantage? [Re: tiredofnagging]
      #218936 - 07/14/08 07:02 AM (219.89.52.173)
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You can't tell me that deep down you don't know you are the one with big ISSUES.

I feel good knowing that each of us women who pick you up on your nagging ways is helping to make you a better you, and hopefully making you a better husband to your wife too.
I just know that one day you'll come back on here and thank each and every one of us.

:-)


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Re: Abuse to my advantage? [Re: Jada]
      #219060 - 07/14/08 02:39 PM (208.71.141.186)
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All I have to say to you AGAIN I NEVER! said that i was right. But obviously you are ignorant to still have reading comprehension as well. You didnt pay attention to the topic at All. All you saw was the hit my husband wich I didnt and FYI I was abused for 4 years pregnant and in front of my children by this [censored] so dont make it seem like you are the only beaten wife. I cant file for divorce because i am trying to move back to my home state wich i dont live in so next time ask for more info before you go rambling and judging.

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Re: Abuse to my advantage? [Re: sophie_1008]
      #219166 - 07/14/08 06:07 PM (69.115.64.195)
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[quote]All I have to say to you AGAIN I NEVER! said that i was right. But obviously you are ignorant to still have reading comprehension as well. You didnt pay attention to the topic at All. All you saw was the hit my husband wich I didnt and FYI I was abused for 4 years pregnant and in front of my children by this [censored] so dont make it seem like you are the only beaten wife. I cant file for divorce because i am trying to move back to my home state wich i dont live in so next time ask for more info before you go rambling and judging. [/quote]

Yes, I did pay attention to your topic. It's kind of hard to have abuse to your advantage when you tried to hit your ex. And would have if you had not missed.

Your hands aren't clean in this whole case.

And the fact that you want to move is going to make your bid for custody even more difficult.

What is probably going to happen is that both of you are ordered into anger management and parenting classes.


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