taryn
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Some people find that the volatile way of life is really interesting and fun. I know you don't think that way now, when things have come to a head, but here's the problem, too many women who have gotten used to living with all the uproar will crave stability, find a stable relationship and
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then get bored with it FAST. The reason is that even though they crave stability and safety and protection, they don't know the whole package comes with less emotional ups & downs... less fun as well as less upset. <<<<<
okay...what, are you listening to my therapy sessions?
LOL!
seems i tend to date the same way!
oh, AND i date from the bottom feeders 'cuz that's all i think im worth. gotta love the fall out of an abusive marriage! sigh....
so that's part of my dating hiatus...
learning to much fighting and upheaval is bad.
and learing that nice guys are okay.
that amidst a thousand things about myself.
my therapist is truely earning her $$.
'cuz when this is over i Will NOT fall into another
bad relationship/marriage(ever on that one)
AND i will decide im a quality person. (well, maybe. i hope so...)
maybe i should take a class of some sort. sigh...
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tiredofnagging
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Reged: 05/09/08
Posts: 190
Loc: Las Vegas, NV USA
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[quote] And now I move on to TiredOfNagging. Actually, I am not going to address my comments to him, but to every person here who has responded to him.
This poster seems to thrive on chaos and drama, more than thrive actually; he seems to feed off of it. Every time he posts, someone responds, and he keeps coming back. It is a vicious cycle and it needs to stop. Responding to his posts only feeds his ego.
Arguing with some people is like standing in front of an ocean and yelling at the waves to stop! It just does not work. Bow out, walk away, bite your tongue, whatever, but do not feed into his toxins.
This has been a long post and I am stepping off of my soapbox now!
Cheffie [quote/]
Well we seem to have yet another judge and jury who has no idea of who I am and what I represent, as well as what I bring to the table. Yet another person who doesn't have her own opinion but simply feeds off what others think. I guess in your own mind you're different, but to me (and a few others) you are the same sh*t different day. Even though I am able to prove otherwise, you and the others wouldn't even be capable of comprehension. Again because of perception. All of you seem to have me figured out. I am ROTFLMFAO at all of you self proclaimed psychobabblists. You all have no clue , just what the next person thinks.
FWIW, my wife and I have started counseling. Isn't that a shock? Most of you cackling hens (I like that) couldn't maintain a relationship if you had to. What man would want any of you who make it so clear how their ex's are so f*cked up while you were the perfect wives.
Give me a break. If you were all such perfect victims why are you all so lonely and bitter?
Lastly feel free to check out the thread by Bart regarding men's rights. Now that's an oxymoron to some of you. I notice how many of you have responded to this poor man who really got screwed over by his stbx. Try to focus on my response. I have also PMed back and forth with him and he is genuinely grateful for my heartfelt sorrow and support.
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malone
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Reged: 12/30/07
Posts: 2039
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[quote] Well we seem to have yet another judge and jury who has no idea of who I am and what I represent, as well as what I bring to the table. [/quote]
You keep saying that.
SO WHO EXACTLY ARE YOU THEN?
The President?
Elvis Presley?
George Clooney? (We wish.)
Santa Claus?
King Kong?
To be honest, we don't care who you are. We just care about how you treat others on the forum. And so far it's all been bad. And now you can add Chefgirl to the incredibly long list of women you've dissed on this forum.
The reason you and your wife have started couselling Will I think have a lot to do with the push back you've had from the women here. Like I've said before, one day you'll be back here to thank us all.
Thank you Cheffy for your words of wisdom.
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tiredofnagging
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Reged: 05/09/08
Posts: 190
Loc: Las Vegas, NV USA
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Hmmm...let's explore this range of thought. You wish I was George Clooney, you all feel dissed, and I'm going to thank you for the advice I've received from all of you to attend counseling with my wife.
So I guess that makes you all either:
Mother Teresa
Nancy Pelosi
honorary members of the View
I guess none of you bothered to see my compassionate response to a gentleman on another thread who indicates his problems are so crappy and complicated that mine pale in comparison. I totally understand how all of you managed to miss that one. :-0
Ain't hypocrisy a b!tch?
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malone
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Good for you. Out of 123 posts, you've finally managed to make one compassionate post. At least you've finally done it.
And who am I?
You guessed it.
Mother Teresa.
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tiredofnagging
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Reged: 05/09/08
Posts: 190
Loc: Las Vegas, NV USA
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Man you are one tough broad. Somewhere out there is a guy who is thinking the same thing, only a little worse. Mother Teresa? Not what I had in mind. Fill in the blank.
Yeah I can actually be compassionate. Disappointed? I just have no compassion for you and the rest of your herd.
Yeah my wife and I are going to make an effort to work things out. Misunderstandings and such on both sides. However, there are a few that have helped me out and provided advice and inspiration. You are not one of them. Actually you could do public service announcements on divorce. Draw your own conclusions. I can't help ya.
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tiredofnagging
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Reged: 05/09/08
Posts: 190
Loc: Las Vegas, NV USA
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Truth is if I did become divorced, I'd want medical and psychological evaluations on anyone I wanted to date. You all are a scary lot.
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malone
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[quote] Mother Teresa? Not what I had in mind. Fill in the blank. [/quote]
You can't really help yourself can you? Abusive comments are a compulsion for you.
The only way you can respond to a comment you don't like is to use abusive insults. Is it a compulsive disorder that you have?
Anyway, I'm glad you're going to counselling with your wife.
One last thing...being completely honest, you'd be the last person on earth I'd ever want compassion from. So no worries there, you'll never be asked for it. Keep up the counselling. It's a good idea.
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tiredofnagging
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Posts: 190
Loc: Las Vegas, NV USA
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And you haven't figured it out that I don't need or want anything from you, not even the last word. Why don't you keep the insults and a few bucks for your efforts?
I don't even want your damn approval.
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malone
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