can this marriage be saved? i love her so much we have been apart for 3 days and i feel like i am dying inside. she has wronged me i so many ways and i don't trust her. but i want to. she has never "officially" cheated on me i caught her talking to another man and sending him nude pics of her. shes not a bad person i never have worried or thought for one minute that she would do something like this. i know there was a breakdown in communication between us. ive known it for a long time but i guess i chose to try to bury it inside of me and ignore it. she says she done the same and i guess thats what lead to all of this. but i want to try a separation and i don't think she is sure if we should or not because she says she not in love with me anymore. can people fall back in love? can we make it work? because there is so much love between us and so many happy times and i don't want this i want her and i want to forgive her. is it wrong to deny her a divorce to try and get her to try to fix it with me. she doesn't hate me or resent me. she says shes scared and i'm afraid shes not letting herself try because of the pain. can it be saved? im hurting so bad, i don't want a divorce. this is the scariest most painful thing in the world.
I don't know what advice to give. I have been in your wifes shoes except for the nude pics and actually leaving. I always threatened divorce. Until he filed.....
The only thing I can say is be strong, think about where it went wrong, find yourself. Don't beg, get to the mindset that this is what she really wants and you are going to make it, even if you have to fake it. Fix yourself.
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