My first post everyone. I was married 18 years by the time of my divorce was completed that I had filled. I did 20 years in the Marine Corps, now retired working in Florida as a car salesman at Nissan, which is very tuff being there isnt anything in my job field that is hiring during these tuff times. My question/problem is now that I need advice on is. our divorce was completed on 8/1/2006, besides that she's nickel and diming me everyday. I have been tring to work on setting up 2 days during the week inorder to see my 2 youngest daughter for 2 days and one night, I have only been able to see my girls for aprox 4 hrs since we divorved, she states the girls dont want to spend a night here with me, i love them dearly and have never done anything bad to them. she wants me to drive across the state to spend only a day with them. thats crazy I feel. besides that she had sent our divorce papers last year to the goverment and they automaticaly started to take the 28% out of my pension for there supporr,then %50 to her from my pension, and on top of all that I send her $290.80 a month from the agreement from my income from my job, she is now treatning to take me back to court stating that I am still short aprox $150 a month beause the goverment misread our paperwok. she also says i need dental insurance. it only states they we both pay %50 each, I am pd ahead on her est of the dental. I do currently pay the medical/insurance and also %50 of the co-pays. I dont make anything here at my job. I pay her on time, but she's always after me. now she caled me today at work saying shes taking me back to court. I dont understand. I hope that someone could help me out with advice. I know this may be confusing, but I am also, I will check this often if someone could help me out I will reply as soon as I can. Thankyou Charles Roberts
Have you been sending the court ordered amount? If so, then you have nothing to worry about.
She, on the other hand, does. What does your court order say about parenting time? If it is clearly spelled out and she is not letting your kids come with you during those times, she is in contempt of court. File a contempt motion compelling her to stop intefering with your parenting time, asking for make-up time (I hope you have been keeping track of the denials of parenting time) and your legal fees.
If it isn't clearly spelled out, it's time to go back to court and get a clearly spelled out parenting plan.
your kids deserve to see you. She is playing games with you. Take her back to court and get some more visitation if you can, because of the distance..you want more time. And, maybe she should meet you half way. It's not about her, it's about the kids. They need their daddy!
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