lettinggo
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Reged: 06/05/07
Posts: 582
Loc: Michigan
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Hey everyone...just thought maybe you could all give me some words of encouragement for this upcoming weekend. My ex has our son for the 4th...well I have him the 4th until 6pm but then he goes with the ex. Anyway, I'm hopoing you can help me get through it because I know he's going to take him to the fireworks with the 23 year old girlfriend. When things like this happen I get so darn angry because I feel she should not be able to spend any holidays with my son...I should...I know, I know, it sounds petty but that's just how I feel. Hopefully this weekend goes by fast so I get through it fine. I am working all weekend so hopefully that helps to take my mind of it. Thanks guys:)
Jenn
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Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go
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redchair
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Reged: 06/21/08
Posts: 118
Loc: Boston
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Aw, Jenn. It doesn't sound petty at all. That would make anybody nuts. Why don't you try to make plans for the weekend when you're not working to keep yourself busy?
The 4th will be a tough one for me, too. I have such fond memories with my stbx on the 4th, and I can't recall even one of them that he ruined because he was intoxicated (a rarity for him!). I'll be right there with you... and we're all here if you want to talk.
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PinkRose
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Reged: 07/09/07
Posts: 1753
Loc: Not sure!!!
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Jenn plan something with your friends to do. I know
how hard it is to lose your kids on holidays. Take this
time for Jenn. Of course, we will all be here for you if
you need us.
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I'm a living sunset... there's light in my bones. You can push me to the edge, but my will is stone!
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mrpat
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Reged: 09/12/07
Posts: 2617
Loc: Michigan
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Too bad your working, I'd tell you just to come hangout with me.
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People don't care how much you know.........until they know how much you care.
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Sarah1014
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Reged: 04/12/07
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Yes, spend it with friends. They won't let your mind "wander."
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weatherman
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Reged: 03/25/07
Posts: 1047
Loc: GA
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All my friends and my ex are going to Florida for a huge private fireworks show.
Maybe I can dig up a sparkler and run around the yard with it.
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That itch ...Could it mean dandruff?
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germangirl631
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Reged: 04/04/08
Posts: 851
Loc: NJ
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Weatherman, Will you do that nood, or clothed? I think nood would be much more satisfying!
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beblebrox
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Reged: 06/12/08
Posts: 323
Loc: Western Pennsylvania
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"Weatherman, Will you do that nood, or clothed? I think nood would be much more satisfying!"
Ohhh!! I just did that a month ago for my birthday!! Very cleansing.
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emsgirl
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Reged: 11/06/07
Posts: 251
Loc: Illinois
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I don't think it is petty at all either.
My ex is supposed to have our son for the 4th too.
We have had the same holiday tradition for the 4th of July and I hate the thought of not doing it together as a family this year.
Divorce sucks.
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Do not make someone a priority when you are only an option to them!
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weatherman
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Reged: 03/25/07
Posts: 1047
Loc: GA
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Well, I'll be wearing my chaps. Does "that" count?
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That itch ...Could it mean dandruff?
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