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Really down today
      #215999 - 06/30/08 10:37 AM (97.83.97.2)
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Man, I am having a really down day today. Tomorrow is our anniversary and then Friday is my birthday, and I just feel horrible about tomorrow. I was dreading it big time, since all of this divorce crap is so new to me, been only 6 weeks, and my stbx is making it worse by just acting like it's no big deal. And then he told me that Friday we are going to celebrate my birthday. I right away said no way, I am spending the day ALONE. I just don't understand why he acts like this is all no big deal. Anyway, just venting, thanks for listening!

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Re: Really down today [Re: brokenup]
      #216007 - 06/30/08 10:47 AM (63.127.202.141)
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Good for you for telling him no to a birthday celebration together. What is it with these people who think they can get a divorce, and then go on as if nothing ever happened? Like, it's all just paper? I don't get it.

Do something good for yourself on your birthday. You're lucky! You always have off on your birthday!!!


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Re: Really down today [Re: brokenup]
      #216008 - 06/30/08 10:47 AM (24.214.14.139)
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I know, it hurts so bad sometimes....and you just can't seem to find the strength sometimes to make it....I have been trying to remember to take baby steps....and when it gets too much, I go out on my back deck and I just breathe. Mostly at dusk when I can watch the fire flies. I don't think that there are any real answers to any of this....I suspect it is just a healing process like someone dying....you have to grieve. My heart is broken too....and sometimes I don't know if the pieces will ever go back....that is whan I think about myself as a person....being worthy to be here on this planet, made better for the experience.
Anyway....I am sending you a big hug from Georgia. (((HUG)))

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There's no present. There's only the immediate future and the recent past~George Carlin


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Re: Really down today [Re: Hurley]
      #216009 - 06/30/08 10:48 AM (24.214.14.139)
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ps...it is my daughter's birthday today...Happy Birthday!

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