I have been married for 8 years, we have one 2yr old. Recently I was told that he is in love with a woman whom he met on a program called "Second Life". He has never met her in person and she lives over 250 miles from us. I filed for divorce under Marital Misconduct. He disagrees with this as they have not had any physical contact. But he says she is his soulmate. He refuses to leave the house and continues to communicate with her on the computer with me there. Am I wrong to expect him to either leave the home or not communicate with her in our family home. I feel this is cheating, am I totally crazy?
You can't force him to leave the marital home or stop communicating with the other person . You can request exclusive use of the marital home in your petition for divorce ( it'll be up to the judge ) . Marital misconduct covers much behavior including : The husband or wife has offered such indignities to the spouse's person as to render the spouse's position intolerable, and thereby forced the spouse to withdraw .
I'd agree with your position .
-------------------- Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what's right. Isaac Asimov