My husband Met a woman February 11, I did some detective work and found out everything, (saw cell phone bills) put him out in March, he moved in with her. We have been together for 16 years and married for 12 years. We have two children and two step children. He left me with the step children. They are 17 and 20, I love them with all my heart but their mother said she don't want them and he said if I want to stay in the house and he keep paying the bills they have to stay with me. I am so hurt, I actually let my husband come home in April but after two months he called me from work June 5 and said that he loves this woman and never coming home, and I still have the kids. But I just don't know what to do I cannot kick them out. This time I know he is not coming home. Plus the thing that really hurt is she has two children the same age as my two, 10-12.
If he is willing to continue to pay the bills, what is the problem? The kids are old enough that they really are pretty self sufficient. The 20 yo should be able to contribute to the household bills... the 17 has one more year of school..... I assume you love these kids. I'd be happy to keep my skids full time.