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Is this normal?
      #216347 - 07/01/08 12:20 PM (209.36.244.253)
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Is this normal? I had a coffee date with a very nice man. However he talked about his divorce like it happened recently but it's been over nine years. Also he told me that he's gotten good at ending bad relationships. Had another conversation with him last night, same themes. I'm willing to give him a chance, he's very nice, but I'm starting to wonder.

Any thoughts please.

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Re: Is this normal? [Re: abbysfv]
      #216349 - 07/01/08 12:25 PM (12.19.225.242)
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Weird. Dump.

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Re: Is this normal? [Re: MarMcMar]
      #216350 - 07/01/08 12:26 PM (209.36.244.253)
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LOL Thanks Mar!

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Re: Is this normal? [Re: abbysfv]
      #216355 - 07/01/08 12:38 PM (72.240.194.119)
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Tread carefully...this one is not over his D and sounds uncomfortable with himself.

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Re: Is this normal? [Re: heartbrokenguy]
      #216383 - 07/01/08 02:36 PM (122.168.93.20)
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Hello, your advice was excellent and it really works for beginner also.
Thank you!

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Re: Is this normal? [Re: abbysfv]
      #216410 - 07/01/08 04:50 PM (99.142.33.73)
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Wow! My divorce is only a little over 1 year old and it is only discussed in the realm of you show me yours and I'll show you mine. This one sounds too wounded to be worth your effort.

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Re: Is this normal? [Re: lairdude]
      #216412 - 07/01/08 04:55 PM (24.1.90.49)
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Move on!

It's been NINE years and he still bears/relives the wounds?

PURGE!!!


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Re: Is this normal? [Re: abbysfv]
      #216420 - 07/01/08 05:15 PM (32.97.110.142)
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Bang'em and don't call back. Wait ...

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Re: Is this normal? [Re: Sarah1014]
      #216421 - 07/01/08 05:17 PM (209.36.244.253)
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Darn it. Dating sux.

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Re: Is this normal? [Re: abbysfv]
      #216487 - 07/02/08 12:06 AM (75.185.130.182)
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recently someone told me to believe how a guy describes himself. and believe it 100%.
if a guy SAYS 'im bad in relationships' believe him.
if a guy SAYS 'my friends all think im a jerk to my women' (and laughs) believe him.

seems to me this is a fish that needs tossed back into the pond.
but if you want to practice talking to him etc. to get back in the dating game...well so be it!

but i think you shouldnt waste your time.

'click.' 'whos next?'

(im sick of nice guys who are just 'off' and the rest of guys who arent nice.)

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