I live in San Ramon. Husband of 20 years makes $100k. Two kids (13 & 11). $50K in debt. I was laid off and am looking for work. Will make in the high $30K eventually. Fairly new to the area. No friends, family in other states. He doesn't want divorce and I do. I've told him but the money/debt is holding it off. To share custody, which is what we want, I'd have to stay in this expensive area. I feel like I'm going out of my mind. I'm trapped, depressed, scared and uninformed. I don't know who to talk to professionally about the financial division/allocation. Can anyone give me some guidance? I would really appreciate it!
Well I am surprised and sorry no one has offered any advise to you. Well this may sound odd, but try your physician. When I went to my doctor to discuss my depression and my problems at home she was wanting to give me information regarding help in my situstion. It is worth a shot. I too moved away from my family and support. The area in which I live is also a bit pricey, I want to go back home too, but he tells me I can't move away, he will not be without his children. I understand that, and don't necessarily want to take them far from him, but there is nothing here for work etc. I don't know if you are a church member, but I do know most churches offer counseling. It may be worth a try. They too will have information and contacts. I pray you find what you are looking for....
Brenda what are your reasons for divorce? Is it possible to seek outside help for your marriage? People often need information on your circumstances to offer help.
-------------------- People don't care how much you know.........until they know how much you care.
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