guitar82
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Reged: 02/24/08
Posts: 374
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If that is possible.
so,the ex and I went our separate ways,a week later she realizise what has happened,does a 180,never wanted the divorce.
So,now I have been flip flopping around like a rag doll in a hurricane.She has totally changed,even has her dad working me.
Then her true self peaks through and it's my fault again.
Only with the help of my friends who have been with me through all this have I maintained my sanity.don't fall for it,they tell me.It's just a train wreck waiting to happen,they tell me.
They are right and I am trying hard to listen to their wisdom,but I don't hurt people.
But I must stand my ground and let the enemy,the ex,become defeated.It will hurt,but it won't be Iraq.it will be quicker.
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This is only a very short period in a very long life
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newlife123
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Reged: 11/04/07
Posts: 188
Loc: phila suburb-PA
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Let your head guide your heart right now until your heart gets wiser.
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is it over
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Reged: 11/19/06
Posts: 323
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Guitar, are you asking for advice? Its hard to tell...but I say, go with what's in your heart. If you love her, you love her. A lot of us on here don't get second chances. Sometimes they work, sometimes they don't, but only you know if the good outweighed the bad.
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NHTom
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Reged: 06/10/08
Posts: 313
Loc: New Hampshire
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If you DO get hitched, consider a pre-nup first. For once, you're holding the cards.
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So much to forget...
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guitar82
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Reged: 02/24/08
Posts: 374
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Surprisingly,there is still love there.
There is a sliver of hope and we are trying out a new relationship on a trial period.
Either it could work,or just back down the hole again.
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This is only a very short period in a very long life
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NHTom
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Reged: 06/10/08
Posts: 313
Loc: New Hampshire
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Of course there's still love. It's the hurt that fades.
Get some answers. You NEED answers from her.
She must have given you bunches of reasons why she left you. Why aren't those reasons valid? You're already divorced. See if you can talk her out of marrying you again. If you can, you've done both of you a huge favor.
If she asks why you're doing this it's simply that you don't want to get hurt like that again and that you want to be sure.
You're talking about thousands of dollars and enormous heart ache if you get this wrong.
As I said: Get a pre-nup. She doesn't have a great track record.
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So much to forget...
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scbeck
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Reged: 12/29/07
Posts: 825
Loc: New Brunswick Canada
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Guitar I am really hoping "love is enough" just for once. I would like a happy ending for a change. (Although maybe I am at the wrong forum for that, maybe I should be at the "Married happily everafter forum)
Christine
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This is the first day of the rest of my life. Or maybe tomorrow will be.
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