Divorce Support Forums: Tank

This product has enabled thousands of people, just like you, to organize and document all the vital issues to make appropriate, conclusive and substantiated claims in and out of court.

Available by Mail and Download

You are not logged in.
[Login]
[Register Here]

Main Index · Search Forums · Active Topics
New User Registration · Who's Online · FAQ · Calendar

General Forums >> Life After Divorce

Pages: 1 | 2 | (show all)

scbeck
Platinum

Reged: 12/29/07
Posts: 811
Loc: New Brunswick Canada

Re: Tank [Re: juliacinaz]
#217189 - 07/05/08 08:51 PM (99.252.97.150)

You know Julia he called this afternoon about 9 hours after they left and asked me if I was missing her. A friend of mine was here and she said to me is he trying to see if you are suffering or what? I think you might be onto something because god knows that my stbx is all about POWER.

Christine

--------------------
This is the first day of the rest of my life. Or maybe tomorrow will be.

Post Extras:

juliacinaz
Platinum

Reged: 02/03/08
Posts: 720

Re: Tank [Re: scbeck]
#217191 - 07/05/08 08:59 PM (68.2.56.129)

It is all about POWER!! He wants you to be afraid and off kilter and running to your attorney. That way he is in control even if he is no longer in your life. My ex is exactly the same way! He is furious that he cannot control what I do in my home now that he no longer is the head of household. He filed for divorce...he called me unfit. He said I was addicted to drugs and had anger issues and was a violent threat to our child's well being. I was so freaked out by all these so called charges against me he got everything he wanted in the divorce. He has a brain injury and he got joint custody!

I WAS A BIG FAT FOOL!!!!!! Don't let him win...just laugh and say have a great time being a parent for a change. tell him you have plans to get laid and play and have fun now that he has the child! Doesn't matter if it isn't true...do not let him know he is hurting you!

Post Extras:

scbeck
Platinum

Reged: 12/29/07
Posts: 811
Loc: New Brunswick Canada

Re: Tank [Re: juliacinaz]
#217193 - 07/05/08 09:09 PM (99.252.97.150)

Yeah I should do that. There have been a few times through the last months that he has asked "is there anything I should know" when I have indicated I was going out with a friend so I should mess with his mind a little.

Christine

--------------------
This is the first day of the rest of my life. Or maybe tomorrow will be.

Post Extras:

Gromit
Bronze

Reged: 12/08/07
Posts: 41

Re: Tank [Re: scbeck]
#217236 - 07/06/08 10:11 AM (67.141.194.101)

You tell him "there is NOTHING you should know, because you're not privvy to information about my private life!" Damn him! They frigging want it all, don't they??

Post Extras:

Pages: 1 | 2 | (show all)

Extra information

6 registered and 18 anonymous users are browsing this forum.

Moderator:

Print Topic

Forum Permissions
      You cannot start new topics
      You cannot reply to topics
      HTML is disabled
      UBBCode is disabled

Rating:
Topic views: 240

Jump to

Divorce Support Forums