emsgirl
Platinum
Reged: 11/06/07
Posts: 251
Loc: Illinois
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I am back at square one... the crying the pain. It all sucks.
I know I let myself get close to my ex again. Things were going well. We were getting along great... he has been begging me to take him back for the past 5 months. I was really doubting if I did the right thing by going through with the divorce.
Now this past Friday he went to go pick up the girl that he was with before... our sons daycare teacher. Now she is living with him again.
Why do I set myself up to get hurt over and over again.
I am such a fool.
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Do not make someone a priority when you are only an option to them!
www.myspace.com/emsgirl538
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lonely14
Bronze
Reged: 07/03/08
Posts: 28
Loc: Midwest
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I am so sorry that you have to go thru it again. At least you know you did the right thing in regards to getting the divorce. The daycare provider?? Ouch. It is bad enough that he flip-flopped again but with your child's daycare provider that is just low.
It is hard when you start to trust someone again only to be let down again. I know. I think some guys get a kick out of it..such a sick sick game.
So sorry..hope things get better.
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emsgirl
Platinum
Reged: 11/06/07
Posts: 251
Loc: Illinois
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Yeah that daycare teacher was pretty low... I had to pull our son out of the daycare that he loved and had been in since he was 1 and he is 5 now.
He even said tha she was unstable and crazy, but now he has her living with him... and is going to bring our son around her.
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Do not make someone a priority when you are only an option to them!
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Nish
Platinum
Reged: 02/18/07
Posts: 1212
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As much as you are hurting now, when you heal, once again from this, at least you will not ask the "What If" question.
You still loved him and thought he had seen the error of his ways. Instead he was just playing you until the he could reclaim the b*tch back in his life.
Lesson learned Ems is, trust your initial instincts and don't let some fast talking, a$$hole put blinders on you and lead you around. This is true whether it is the ex or some new guy. You have to protect your heart, because there are people out there that won't give a moments hestitation to stomping on it.
I am so sorry you are hurting right now. I wish you happier and more peaceful days soon. Someday a wonderful man who knows the value of a good woman will find his way into your life.
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PainedPatty
Platinum
Reged: 01/28/08
Posts: 660
Loc: Southern California
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It really is amazing how we can be pulled right back into the pit. I think we can all trust that you will never let him into your heart again. You can see now that you made the right decision in the first place and that he absolutely can't be trusted. <<hugs>> to you and don't forget that he is the loser, not you!!
Patty
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ssrachel
Platinum
Reged: 05/23/07
Posts: 1952
Loc: bottom of a pit
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hey, m, you'll be ok and you really are not back at square one. you'll recover much quicker from this setback. as much as it hurts, at least you know you were willing to try and forgive. now you know that with him, he can't/won't change.
of course, this cements my opinion, that once a cheater, always a cheater.
i think you'll see that you'll feel a little better each day. you've made it this far, you'll make it even farther.
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taryn
Platinum
Reged: 05/31/07
Posts: 2035
Loc: Hell...but im coming back up, ...
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oh.
im sorry things went this way.
kat is 100% right,
this time you will bounce back my quicker.
and
MUCH wiser.
he played you once.
he wont be able to do it twice.
he's such an a$$.
people who play head games suKK!
(((Hugs))) to you.
lots of people here have dealt with the
emotions of the headgame fallouts from stbxs.
keep coming here for support.
what a low person your stbx is!
ICK~~
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taryn.
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tookway2much
Platinum
Reged: 03/31/08
Posts: 619
Loc: Going toward the light!
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You can't be the fool. You didn't jump back in to the same old drama with him. You've shown great strength here. Don't sell yourself short. In fact you deserve a big hug.
^^^^^^^^^^ HUG^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
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I don't worry about the people in my past. There is a reason they are not in my future.
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emsgirl
Platinum
Reged: 11/06/07
Posts: 251
Loc: Illinois
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I hope I can bounce back quickly from this. It really makes me sick to my stomach.
I know I shouldn't be shocked that he lied to me again, but I am.
I really worry about him and her taking our son. It is in the divorce decree that he can not keep our son for overnight visits till they have been together for 6 months. I know this is probably petty and stupid on my part, but I worry that my son will love going over there. They are a "family". They will be playing the disneyland parents to him. This is one of the things that really kills me. My son really liked this daycare teacher that is now living with his dad. I did too at one time, till I saw who she really is. She is as big of a liar as my ex is.
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Do not make someone a priority when you are only an option to them!
www.myspace.com/emsgirl538
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