Unfortunatly it looks like I will be getting divorced for the second time and my wife for the third. It will be because of my son and mother and me not handling them to her satisfaction. My son has emotional problems. My wife hates his guts and is hugely angry at him and me because he and I don't "fix" it him. And that I still care about my not allowed to call or in our home mom who we have had almost no contact with for over two years.
We had a huge blowout a couple days ago. I said things I shouldn't have. She attacked my son verbally and I had no right to defend him - or me.
We are starting counciling but I'm not very hopeful. My son is a "psychopath" and she feels nothing will help/fix him and I'm the blame. I'm a shit father.
What a drag. I liked/loved her, and still love some things about her. But I'm the only parent my son has - I can't abandon him. I'm a jerk/a-hole/drunk/narciccist and will not abandon my kid for a woman/wife.
I'm pretty sure she is about to contact a lawyer if she hasn't already - she feels owed money in our marriage as she put the down payment on the house while I supported her and her three sons as she found a job - and still do as her job doesn't pay enough to contribute half to our bills/lives 4 years later.
I've been thru divorce before - I'm hoping this time isn't as hard and financially ruining.