Go to Martindale.com and search for lawyers that are rated. If you are in the Philadelphia area, Lynn Gold-Bikin is one of the best. She charges $10,000 non-refundable retainer and is $475/hr., but I have read articles on her and she was rated in the top lawyers in the country. I met with her - she is tough. She will tell you like it is and pull no punches....but she won't pull punches in a custody fight either.
BTW, can anyone tell me how to start a new thread on here? I seem to be technically illiterate and can't find a "post new" on the site.