Tatakai
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Reged: 06/29/08
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Well I have a weird situation that I dont understand and need help with. So here goes with the mass of confussion. I have custody of me son. She has to pay child support which she is behind on. From what I have gathered her lawyer is telling her one thing and mine is telling me something different. X has paid the day care for the sons after school care that I didn't know about and now hearing that she doesn't have to pay me because she paid them. There is nothing in writing that says she is to pay them. So one question I have is does that count as child support payment (Partial as it wasn't the totally monthly amount). Her lawyer told her, from what she has told me, that as long as she has paid something she doesn't have to pay it all. That it is a good faith payment. SO what about the balance that hasn't been paid does it carry over to the next month. She is mad at me for having to pay child support but sure as hell wanted me to pay her child support if it were the other way around. She walked into the hearing the other day giving me primary custody and only want to see our son on long school weekends. But with the presumption that if she moved back there could be co-parenting. She told me that she will not move back here and doesn't want co-parenting. BUT she doesn't want to pay child support either. I don't know what to do about it now, so I am looking for suggestions.
Tatakai
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Reged: 06/14/07
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You need to have your child support set up via automatic withholding from her paycheck. Whatever she is court ordered to pay, cannot be made up by other payments.
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Tatakai
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Reged: 06/29/08
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I would if she was working. She quit her job thinking that she wouldn't have to pay me. Well she isn't paying me but our son for his needs, I look at it like it is his and not mine. Don't know what to do about it all.
tatakai
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With those that don't work, or work for cash, if they don't have any assets, collection becomes about impossible. You can pursue it legally with a contempt charge, but after reading thousands of cases, yours isn't one that is likely to produce much money. Good luck.
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chatter box
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It doesn't count and never believe what she sais her lawyer told her.
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SwedishChef
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Reged: 08/20/08
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Tell her if she signs off her parental rights and leaves you two alone for good, she won't have to pay CS.
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