aspect
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Loc: Texas
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I know what you said...I did read your post..you asked how do you know if she is "the one"?
I forget what it's called... where you ask a question and then answer it yourself. Yeah... that's what I was doing.
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My point was...no one is "the one" unless you make them that in one head or another!
Anyone can be glorified or villifed.And I hate to tell you...but sexual attraction IS what get's most people to the alter too soon! Shallow or not...I know even as a woman...if a man is HOT...I am all over it with dreams and hopes even if he is the biggest [censored] walking!...if he isn't appealing to me physically...I am not.
Guess I am the only honest person here.
How does that relate to honesty? Sexual attraction is important, but it's not the only factor for everyone but you. Maybe that's what brought you to the altar, but it wasn't for me. And it's not what's going to bring me to the altar again.
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You will know when it is right when you have a mutual
Spiritual, Intellectual,Sexual and Emotional connection to someone you are compatible with on multiple levels and they are all in alignment..oh..and throw in a PRENUP before it goes too far..just in case..'the one turns' into a psycho [censored] just out for your cash! 
Is that better?
That's better, but I'm not doing a prenup. I won't get married again if I feel I need a prenup.
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HeartOn
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Reged: 07/25/08
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Loc: In Limbo, NC
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Well...since you won't sign a prenup, which I wholeheartedly agree with and demand before marriage,and did..and you are not into marriage just for sex, like I somehow am in your mind......I guess there is just no hope for us...lol
Good luck on your quest...finding "THE ONE"!
Slipping away to find someone to F**K me hard and marry me after he signs a prenup....bye....
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The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want.
Ben Stein
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abbysfv
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Reged: 02/13/08
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Loc: LA, CA
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I have to agree with Aspect on this one. If you need a prenup what's the point of getting married? Why not just live together?
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My subconscious is smarter.
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aspect
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Reged: 01/08/08
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Loc: Texas
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Well...since you won't sign a prenup, which I wholeheartedly agree with and demand before marriage,and did..and you are not into marriage just for sex, like I somehow am in your mind......I guess there is just no hope for us...lol
Good luck on your quest...finding "THE ONE"!
Slipping away to find someone to F**K me hard and marry me after he signs a prenup....bye....
Umm... ok. That got wierd.
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taryn
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Reged: 05/31/07
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Loc: standing on the mountaintop! :...
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okay...wow...THIS thread took a turn.
i must say i find it refreshing that there are those people on this board who find that 'the one' does exist!
very cool!
i, for one, am still in the 'there is NO way'
and cant imagine trusting anyone with me, my kids,
my heart, or any stuff i might actually end up with.
how SAD is that!
i agree that while a prenup sounds mean,
after this fiasco divorce process it sure would be easier to
deal with the prenup drama than the fallout drama of divorce.
as for knowing someone is the one.
i guess part of it is knowing when someone ISNT.
i think one of my first mistakes was seeing the red flags stating that my stbx wasnt the one years ago, but i took the flags down and buried them in the garden.
so....now i see red flags...i run...ill bet half of what i see isnt even a red flag, but maybe a red rose. but for now im WAY to scared.
i wish us ALL the best at finding our 'one'!
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