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ive decided i should learn to be a biotch...
      #232844 - 09/23/08 05:53 PM (75.185.135.104)
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i keep reading all this biotch stuff
and decided i should give this a go.
so i ordered that book all of you are talking about.

my problem is im not good at being a biotch at the right time and place.

and, saddly, deep down, i think i might be WAY to nice and care WAY to much about someone that i care about so i dont know HOW to be boitchy.

and when i AM biotchy its either at the wrong time,
the wrong person, or im really sorry afterwards.

i really want to learn this stuff.

i was overly doormattish in my marriage,
while i was crabby at times it was because i was sick
of the rude treatment. as soon as he was nice for five minutes i was all bending over backwards.
i was far to needy and dependant.
what a looser!


i want to be an independant biotch. :)

i hope the book comes soon.
so i can figure out how all this works.
i KNOW i can do this!

i want to start learning and practicing.

;)

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Edited by taryn (09/23/08 06:12 PM)


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Re: i keep reading about all this biotch stuff... [Re: taryn]
      #232845 - 09/23/08 06:07 PM (68.110.66.68)
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Wow, it always worries me when I hear all this stuff. There's a huge range of ways to be, between bitchy and doormat. I suggest finding the MIDDLE ground.

There's something very uncivil about the behaviors that women are aspiring to... seeking to learn to be biotches... seeking to be divas, princesses, pampered prisses. It's NOT an attractive thing! And so often it's not backed by a thing... loud proclamations of self-esteem without an accomplishment or good QUALITY to back it up. I mean, think back on it... all the b1tchy women you've known in your life... people were their friends NOT because people LIKEd them, but because people were intimidated by them.

If you really want to learn how to be a b1tch, turn on that cable show (is it VHS or MTV?) Sweet Sixteen. It's FRIGHTENING how nasty these girls can be. Thier daddies make a lot of money so they create birthday parties for thier 16th birthday that are intended to rival any foolishness they've seen on TV. These little girls practicing nasty behaviors, putting down kids who don't meet thier "standards" (not dressing cool enough or whatever), and the excuse is, "I DESERVE it". Yeah... right... what have they EVER done to deserve such a huge payday? kissed Daddy when he came home from work? Poor kids do that too, but know better than to expect a huge party out of it.

Instead of trying to learn how to be mean to others, consider trying to learn how to be your own best self and be proud of your best self and refuse to accept being treated like dirt by anyone, INCLUDING the b1tches of this world.

When you start presenting yourself to the world in a b1tchy way, you will get the response from the world that the b1tches get.


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Re: ive decided i should learn to be a biotch... [Re: taryn]
      #232859 - 09/23/08 08:04 PM (68.172.93.70)
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Wait till you get the book before you start thinking about the label. The word "bitc#" is used in jest. What it really talks about is how to stand up for yourself while STILL doing it in a "nice" way.

Man I wish I had read the book 6 months ago!

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