Ok, I'm the bad guy here. I left my husband of 15 years for someone else. (Though it wasn't an internet meeting or anything, just someone I've kept in touch with over the last 15 years, we were friends prior to my getting married.) My question is if I move in with him prior to my divorce, what can my stbx do legally as far as the kids and child support, etc.? He is in CA and I am in TX and I can't file until Jan due to the 6 month waiting period.He is not disputing my brining the kids to TX because he knows my support system (entire family) is here. (My stbx and I lived in TX until 6 years ago when his job transferred him to CA.) I just want to know if there will be any reprecussions if my kids and I move in with my boyfriend prior to the divorce. Thanks in advance for any help.
There is nothing stating that you can't move on with your life ! First of all , if your ex isn't fighting that you are moving so far away with the kids . Then why would he care if you moved on with the rest of your life ? Unless he doesn't want to see you romantically involved w/ someone else . Then that's where the probs. might start . Depending on the kids ages and all . I don't see a judge moving them back and forth between states . If the Dad is willing to let them move . Then why would a judge say . Well since your ex isn't happy with your new relationship .... move them back to CA. . As far as your character goes . The judge could look at that . Just depends on the judge also . But I really don't know all your situation . but like I said . If Dad isn't worried that his kids are so far away to begin with . I don't see any probs. .