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hopefull
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Re: Is it wrong that I want to leave? [Re: mistake#2]
#227988 - 08/23/08 07:51 PM (71.205.137.165)

I f child protection services came in, it would not look good. It's only going to get worse. Your daughter is the priority..If someone was mean toward my kid there is NO doubt I'm out...Some will call the child protection servces and you won't know it especially if she starts counseling and goes back to school and tells teachers and what not..Save yourself..He's calling your child names!!! what else do you need...to find that your child is suddenly missing.
Sorry to be rough but this is how the abuse starts. Wetting her bed and pulling out hair is anxiety!!! a 6 year old doesn't have those deepest thoughts to lie they come with time..Your child is 1st.

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HeartOn
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Reged: 07/25/08
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Loc: In Limbo, NC

Re: Is it wrong that I want to leave? [Re: shaybri_23]
#228015 - 08/24/08 05:46 AM (64.12.117.143)

I think the real question is...is it wrong of you to stay!

YES...it is!

Why would it be wrong for you to want to protect your child...and yourself from an obvious abuser?

You don't need permission to leave...or to ask him to leave.

You have enough signs to justify ending this marriage.

May I suggest that you read into this Disorder and see if anything rings a bell.From what you have written...he sounds like he might be a danger to you and your daughter in ways you can't begin to imagine,being that you have a conscience,empathy and morals.

http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/general.msnw

http://www.narcissism.operationdoubles.com/npd_site_content.htm

Heart On

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taryn
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Re: Is it wrong that I want to leave? [Re: HeartOn]
#228026 - 08/24/08 10:24 AM (75.185.135.104)

this original post was back in june.

i wonder what happened here.

it's so hard when your in the midst of an abusive situation to see what is obvious to others.

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HeartOn
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Re: Is it wrong that I want to leave? [Re: hopefull]
#228117 - 08/25/08 08:00 AM (64.12.117.143)

I didn't realize that...sometimes though...it takes an outside force...to open our eyes and had she come back...she would have seen that we cared more about her well being than she did.

That is so sad.But I can relate as I was betrayal bonded to my husband for 25 years before I WOKE UP!

I hope she finds her way out,if she hasn't already.

Heart On

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The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want.
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stevensjanice
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Reged: 10/05/08
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Re: Is it wrong that I want to leave? [Re: jersey girl]
#234298 - 10/05/08 05:24 AM (172.164.245.228)

i have a husband well let me say ex but i went threw something close to this and for the best part my daughter was telling the truth.there were times that she fibbed but the better part of it was the truth.i cant tell u what you should do but there is a man with issues and you need to get out b4 someone gets hurt.you should not have to deal with his crap and neither should you daughter

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