Hello. I am a male who has been in a common law relationship for 5 years with a female who had a son before our relationship. In this relationship we formed a daughter and recently bought a home. However for years she has lied to me , and with finances always keep things seperate from me. Finances have always been a huge problem for us and what is hers is hers and what is mine pays for half of the things we have. Things are a mess and we always argue, dont comunicate, get along etc. I have no clue what to do as i want out. Im tierd of being lied to, things kept behind my back. I dont want to ruin the childerens lives but i have no clue what to do.
You need to think about you....what do you want and what will make you happy. If it's trying to work things out, talk about counseling...if you want to move on, get your things in order, talk about it and try to make it as easy on your child as possible.
Sounds easy, NOPE, but you are the only one who can answer your question....