algoma
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Reged: 02/21/06
Posts: 6
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After the last several years, my husband, who is 12 yrs my junior, finally told me again he wants out of the marriage. He has done this every several months for the last few years. Ironically, its kinda funny because we just moved to a new house so that I could be closer to my son and new grandson. Four months later, the new home is nice and comfortable. I made the decision to sell my llamas that I had raised and bred, so that I would give it one last chance and do things togetheragain. Well, I sold all my llamas, have no job, and am devastated he doesn't love me anymore. This just hurts so bad!!! I gave up something I really enjoyed doing with raising llamas, and for what? This is my second marriage, am 55, and absolutely don't know where to start with salvaging my sanity.
Is anyone out there? I definitely need to talk to someone in the same boat.
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pdm1960
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Reged: 02/15/06
Posts: 261
Loc: California
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Dear Algoma,
I think everyone at this site is going through, or has gone through something similar. Only with our own twists. We all have needed someone to help us salvage our sanity. If you think your losing your mind, it seems like it will last forever, but it doesn't. But keep in mind that it doesn't go away over night. Find support from friends and family. And if you can, start raising llamas again. Stay strong. and write often.
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bhc
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Reged: 07/12/06
Posts: 1
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Dear Algoma,
I too am new to this forum, and am feeling much the same. Your post was particularly poignant, because my wife and I spent three days in Algoma last week, just to talk things out (We live by West Bend). We stayed in the Britannia B&B just south of Algoma, and it was a peaceful, friendly and neutral place to talk. You live in such a beautiful area. Anyway, I don't really know what to say, except that you're not alone. Sometimes I think that when one person suffers, we all suffer. Let's just work on getting our heads straight and get past the point where we're going through all the stages of grieving every 10 minutes. I think we can help ourselves by getting out as much as possible and trying to help other people. That's so easy to say, yet so hard to do at this point. But we have to! Best hopes to you.
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JoyceV
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Reged: 08/31/06
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Just looking for some advice on the property laws of wisconsin, husband had the house before him and i married, what am i entitled to, and we also have an insurance business. Can he just make me leave the home with my son. Im totally in the dark and lost
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