Divorce Support Forums: rights of stay at home mothers

Some of the men on this forum have horrible attitudes, and quite frankly, it's getting a little old. This is the WOMEN'S RIGHTS forum, where women should be able to come and talk and not have men that have been burned and want to take it out on other women can come and put in their two cents. That's what your forum, called MEN'S RIGHTS is for. Go there and talk badly about women, and whine about how you have been wronged, and pass judgement on other people, but at least have the decency to respect this one forum on here and keep your "man" attitude out of it.

You want to talk about f'ing RIGHTS? My ex was too busy running around and feeding his p0rn addiction to take care of his wife when she was on bedrest for 3 months in order to save their son's life. That same p0rn addiction that "made" him fail to turn in his resignation to the National Guard in time to avoid a year and a half long deployment, which left his wife alone in a strange city to care for a 3 month old until he was nearly 2 years old. That same "man" verbally and emotionally abused his wife in front of the child. That "man" was given 3 years to clean up his act, become a responsible adult, husband and father and failed to do so. That "man" was fully aware of the consequences of his actions if he chose to continue his behavior (ie divorce). That "man" PAID other people to lie about his son's MOTHER in court to try to obtain custody of a 2 1/2 year old who didn't even KNOW his father. That same "man" would not allow me to work and required that I be at home to take care of our son and further his real estate intersts, which essentially ruined my CAREER. So when I decided to divorce him after years of counseling, giving him hundreds of chances, he tried to take my son from me completely, provides minimal support, I got 4 fricking lousy months of spousal maintenance to "start over", I lost more than my "fair share" because the courts did NOT protect me, and he was able to coerce me into agreements that I did not want to agree to because he had the money, the real estate, and essentially all the cards. You want to talk about RIGHTS??? If my ex wanted to spend time with his child, then he should have been "man" enough to stop his abusive behavior and his philandering. Every time he starts to piss and whine about HIS rights, I think to myself, "well, you should have thought about that while you were abusing his mother, again, and again, and again, and again."

If you men treated your wives half as badly as you treat the women on this forum, then it's no wonder they left you, cheated on you, divorced you. Time to grow up and take responsibility for YOUR part in what happened and stop taking it out on every female on this forum.