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mike
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Reged: 01/26/06
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Dear Sirs, Six Years ago my Ex Wife and I got a divorce through Mediation…No alimony, and no child support granted because we both have shared custody .I recently heard through conversations with my kids that my ex wants to ask for retro active child support, at present she is going through her second divorce, of which she needed to move out of his house and get her own rent, now her finances are low and she wants to go after me. We live in CT Should I get a Lawyer before she serves me for court. If our divorce is final can she come after me even though we share equal custody of the children (4) our papers state that we both waived our rights for alimony then and in the future, but didn’t say anything about child support. Thank You Curly
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melanie14
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Reged: 03/11/06
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Hey Curly,
It's weird that you said if our divorce is final..of course it is or she couldn't get remarried and divorced again. I think if you have the child support thing in writing it should hold up in court. But, as you know, the courts will always put the kids first. Since you have shared custody, I really doubt she can go after any money.
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484
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Reged: 04/02/06
Posts: 1
Loc: CT
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hello, i am currently going through divorce...me and my wife have ben married 5 years ...lived together 12...and friends for 20....she has lied to me very bad...shes been having an affair with a friend...shes also moved him into our house...i am currently staying in an apartment...my question is how do i move on after this?...she was my best friend...at least i thought so....i was no angel...i recently realized that i am an alocholic and suffer from depression....the reasons why she says she wants the divore...not because of her affair....i dont know how to move on....shes all i think about thank you,ron
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melanie14
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Reged: 03/11/06
Posts: 3058
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Ron,
Okay hold on a minute. Are you sure she's just convinced you that your an alcoholic. I think she's trying to mess with you because she feels guilty about the affair. What all of the sudden after all those years you are walking around with a brown paper bag all the time. My x tried the alcoholic sh-t on me. Yea, I like to a few glasses of wine with dinner. BIG DEAL!!! post back--I think she is playing with you because you are so down. I read somewhere "you really get to know you're spouse when you get divorced." Watch out for her!!!
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