OK, I'd so much appreciate sb with similar experience to share how they mastered a following situation: My son is 14 yo. Diagnosed and treated for ADHD, needs a lot of supervision, otherwise great heart, very bright. I (mom) was de facto single mom, with husband working in FL and spending >80% there or traveling. Even when at home, not interested in being father. Result: no relationship with son, no authority. For this and other reasons I filed divorce in August 05. Since then my husband insisted he now want to be a father. Initially I was hopefull (too late to make up our relationship, but was happy for the kid). Quickly it became clear that this is all about husband wanting revenge & support money from me. The boy refused to go back to father after the latter was violent with him during one of the placements in February. Boy improved, stabilized, the future looked good. 3 weeks ago out of the blue the GAL decided to move him 100% to his father to restore relationship. I have no contact to my son. Cannot see him. Can call him once every 2 weeks. Nobody gives me a timeline on this "intervention", objectives, criteria of success or failure, even though I keep asking. Nobody takes responsibility for all the risks. Boy turned sick immidiatelly after being forcefully moved. His school performance deteriorated. Nobody pays attention. I filed motion in court, to no avail. I am in a shock. My child was taken away. Nobody listens. Other people don't believe it's possible and think I might be telling an incomplete story. HELP! WHat can I do?
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