I filed for divorced 2 weeks ago on grounds of inhuman treatment and mental cruelty after a 4.5 year abusive relationship. My 11 year old and I moved out of the house and living in my minister's camper next to their house. My husband changed the locks on the house, drained the accounts, threw our pictures in the street and shows no remorse for his actions. He is totally oblivious to any wrong he has done. We have lived a life of lies for 4.5 years and swept our problems under the rug until I couldn't take it any longer. He is telling his family and friends I just left him. I am an emotional wreck. Just existing and breathing hurts. Our temp court hearing has been set for Nov 20th. Does anyone have any exper with MS judges/laws. My attorney is asking for my daughter and I to be moved back in the home and he pay the bills. He is out of town from sun-friday and not even in the home. Please let me know any experiences you may have and also how to deal with this pain. Why do I have to be the one that hurts?
Go move back into the home and change the locks on him. Don't let him in the home. You have the upper hand in MS with what he's done. You will be doing what is right for you and ur child. When he comes home, call the police and have him leave the premises. You have a child to think about and the cops, I'm sure will do what is right for the child.