it is 12:49 am 12/24/06 my wife left with my younger of two boys approx. 3 hours ago to stay at a friends house. I asked her to do one thing to call me when she got there so that i know they are alright. She has yet to call and she probably wont i dont know if she dropped off the youngest at a friends house to go party or if she is actually at her friends house i have no idea whats going on and what i can do. She said that she will never get inbetween my sons and me. what can i do? what should i do? I dont want to make this a long drawn out battle. She says that she loves me but that she is not "in love" with me. I am 35 years old self educated Network engineer unstable career because of the market up here i do have a well paying job and she just quit hers. I dont want to go through all of this if it turns out she just has post partem depression from the second child. i know i am jumping all over the place but i have a short time to act. please anything you can think of please help.
Your message does sound incoherent, with no background information it's hard for anyone to help.
were you having troubles with your marriage/wife? why did she all of a sudden decide to go to a friend's house? did you have a fight? At this point I would try to find out what her motives are. You said she just quit her job so if she leaves you would she be able to make it on her own?