I am divorcing my husband. I have tremendous guilt over this. I know this is what is right for me, for our family. I just hate to hurt him therefore I am dragging my feet.
I love him, Im just not in love with him anymore. I need to set him free so he can be loved by someone like he deserves. He lives in another State, I just hope he stays there when this is said and done. The kids only seeing him every few months as it is. It will be what they are used to just mom and dad wont be married anymore.
I hate being the bad guy. I really wish he would divorce me so I dont have to do the hurting. Im not a vindictive person and I dont want to play dirty. I just want the papers signed and be done with it. I guess Im living in a fantasy world arent I? Sigh.....
Done venting here. Im new and this is only my second post, you may see me around here alot. LOL
You want the divorce and you are the one dragging your feet? Do both of you a favor and work get it done with quickly. A pending divorce is one of life's more uncomfortable positions.
Yes I am dragging my feet but Im trying to get everything in order before I file. Hes the only source of income, I have three kids to protect and feed. Should be this week though.....
make sure you get all your research done for the divorce, considering he's your only source of income. I did no research at all when i got divorced and didn't know about support guidelines and what not so i agreed on low amount of support. he had a lawyer and i didn't. I got the shaft big time! stupid me.
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