Divorce Support Forums: I NEED HELP??!!!!

MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN UNFAITHFUL FOR MONTHS. HE TRICKED ME OUT OF OUR HOME(RENTAL) THE LAST OF SEPT. AND THEN HE MOVED OUT SAYING HE WOULD SAVE $$ SO WE COULD SOON GET OUT OF THAT TOWN TOGATHER. HE CONFESSED TO HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH HIS BOSS BUT MADE IT AS THOUGH HE HAD NO CHOICE AND WOULD PLAY HER FOR FINANCES AND THEN WE WOULD GET. HE SAID SHE FORCED HIM TO FILE DIVORCE AND EVEN PAYED. I HAVE TODAY LEARNED THAT HE MAY HAVE MOVED RIGHT IN WITH HER. HE HAS TOSSED LOVE IN THE WASTE BASKET FOR MONEY. (SHE LIVES IN A NASTY TRAILER)ANYWAY, I AM TIRED OF HIS GAMES. HE WANTS HIS WIFE AND SUGAR MOMMA TOO. DUE TO HIS ACTIONS, AT THIS POINT I AM LIVING WITH HIS PARENTS AND HAVE NO JOB AND NO MONEY AND NO TRANSPORTATION. HE TELLS ME "I LOVE YOU" "BE PATIENT". WHAT KIND OF MAN HAS HE BECAME? IS THERE ANY WAY TO MAKE HIM PROVIDE ME A CAR AND PLACE TO LIVE ON MY OWN? IN THE DIVORCE PAPERS HE SAID WOULD NEVER BE FINALIZED, HE GIVES ME MY 4RUNNER BUT HAS SINCE LET HIS PARENTS TAKE IT OVER. HERE I SIT WITH NO HUSBAND, MONEY, JOB, CAR, HOME... ALL OF THIS IS HIS FAULT. I WAS A HOUSE WIFE, HE WOULD GET JEALOUS IF I WORKED WITH MEN ALTHOUGH I NEVER GAVE HIM REASON. ALSO, HE MOVED ME ALL OVER THE COUNTRY, SOMETIMES AVERAGING A MOVE EVERY 2 MONTHS. HE LIED TO ME ABOUT THIS WEEKEND, HE SAID HE WOULD BE IN ONE CITY WORKING A BOAT SHOW BUT IS HERE IN THE CITY I AM IN. I NEED TO SEE HIM TO SAY END THIS NOW AND BE MY HUSBAND OR QUIT CALLING ME AND SEEING ME AND LEADING ME TO HAVE HOPE. I KNOW IT IS SOMETHING I MUST MAKE HIM DO IN PERSON. I NEED THIS SETTLED NOW ONE WAY OR THE OTHER!!!! I NEED TO GET ON WITH HAVING SOME KIND OF LIFE. THIS BACK AND FORTH, HOPING AND WAITING IS KILLING ME. ADULTRY SHOULD BE A CRIME AS SHOULD BEING INVOLVED WITH A MARRIED MAN!!! IT RUINS PEOPLES LIVES AND THEY ARE NOT HELD ACCOUNTABLE!!! IF HE HAS TAKEN ANY OF MY THINGS TO HER TRAILER, IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO TO GET THEM BACK TO BURN? I WANT VENGENCE ON HER BUT ONE WAY OR THE OTHER I KNOW I WILL HAVE IT. AFTER OUR TALK, HE WILL QUIT THIS(DOUBTFUL, HE IS MONEY DRIVEN) OR HE WILL CONTINUE TO USE HER FOR MONEY AND SHE WILL FINALLY SEE IT AS THAT. HE CALLS ME ALL THE TIME AND IS CAREFUL ABOUT CALLING ON HIS CELL SHE APYS FOR AS SHE MIGHT SEE ON HIS BILL. I COULD TURN OVER THINGS PROVING HE IS STILL INVOLVED WITH ME, HIS WIFE BUT I WILL NOT STOOP TO THEIR LEVEL AND COST HIM HIS JOB, HE WILL NEED $$ TO GET ME SET UP. ALSO I HEARD THAT HE TOLD THEM AT WORK THE DIVORCE WS FINAL!!!! I FILED PRO SE' AND IT WILL NOT HAVE ANYTHING FURTHER DONE FOR 18 MONTHS!!!! HE STILL SAYS HE WILL CXL THE DIVORCE. ITS TIME TO PROVE IT. PUT UP OR SHUT UP!!!! QUIT SCREWING AROUND WITH MY LIFE. LOVE ME AND ONLY ME OR LET ME GO!!!!