Me and my wife have been separated for 2 years. we have been married for 17 years. she suffers from depression and bi-polar and we have had some trouble. She was baker acted appx. 5 years ago. She went to jail twice for domestic violence. She has worked on/off during the marriage. She doesnt work now because her doctor says she is unable due to her condition although I don't know all the details because her doctor wont speak to me. We have 2 kids ages 13 and 16 and they live with me although they can stay with her at times. She is now expecting a baby which is not mine. I understand that i will have to pay her alimony but I don't want to have to pay child support for someone elses child. I am sure I can have custody of my sons (or at least 50/50 and no child support). I currently support her (rent, electricity..). I was told I cannot get a divorce until after the baby is born.
I am pregnant and getting a divorce. You can get a divorce before the baby is born and you should file. If the baby is not yours then you ask for a paternity test and that will take care of the CS issue for the unborn baby. As for allimony that is dependent on a lot of factors and the judge. If she is able to work then most likely you will only have to pay rehability allimony not permanant.