Met with lawyer today, he said end it asap and look as clean and pure as I could, hope stbx does'nt push the matter or I would probably loose big time in the settlement. It really stinks, like you said he does'nt want me but if I find a new interest before the divorce it only hurts me in the end. I've been married 29 years didn't think it would end this way!
-------------------- Someday your life will flash before your eyes, make sure it is worth watching.