I have a friend that is kind of going through the same thing. They have 3 kids and she is a SAHM. Her lawyer told her that because she is a SAHM, her stbx will have to pay their rent, utilities and a monthly allowance for groceries until she can find a job to support them, all of that plus child support. You need to talk to a lawyer and fast. What area of Texas are you from because I know a great law firm in the Weatherford area.